I grew up in Missouri, very near Lee's Summit, and have many family members that live in there now. It's a nice place. It's a little more sprawled out than I like, and yes you get to everything via hwy, but if you weren't driving 60mph you'd really realize how far things really are from each other.
As far as choosing between that and Overland Park? I choose OP. I've been living here for a few years now, and I think it has far better access to downtown KC, many of the neighborhoods are older and have nice big trees... and the little downtown sections of OP, Merriam, Old Shawnee Town, and Mission are CUTE and walkable... some strip malls, but really more of an old town square feeling.
The roads are better in KS. The government systems for registering to vote, getting your driver's license and renewing your tags is MUCH, MUCH easier. I couldn't believe how easy it was after growing up in MO. You actually get your car inspected at the DMV, and can register to vote while renewing/getting your driver's license! It really consolidates the steps. In MO you have to do everything at different places. Also, when you buy a car in KS, you can roll the taxes into the loan. It's really NICE not having to come up with 1200-2000 bucks when your 30 days tags expire... Trust me.
I'm moving to Roeland Park (between OP and the Plaza) in a month, and it couldn't be a better location for me. I'll be minutes from the Plaza, and 15 minutes from KC. Perfect!
So that's my 2-cents, having lived in both places.
good luck!
(hey, but I'll always be a Missouri girl at heart! Go Roos!
