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Old 10-28-2017, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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Well, we have no assets.... I have the job, house, car, etc.
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There are no assetts, guys.
Didn't make sense when I first read it, but I assume you mean the house and car have no value beyond the loans owed on them?
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Old 10-28-2017, 09:00 PM
 
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There are no assetts, guys.
Does not matter. You both have to come to the same agreement with the separation to get off easy and cheap. Any single contest complicates the matter and it will cost.
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Old 10-28-2017, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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What is the cheapest way to get divorced?
If there's no contest about dividing assets, dividing debt, or alimony, there's an attorney who I share office space with that handles uncontested divorces for around ~$1000, child custody petitions for $1500. I wish i could help, but I only do estate planning.

Unfortunately, this doesn't sound uncontested, at least where custody is concerned.
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Old 10-28-2017, 10:26 PM
 
Location: North Las Vegas
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When I got divorced in 2014, I paid a paralegal 150 bucks to do the paperwork and like 180 to the courts but our divorce was very simple, we had no kids and believe it or not we were damn near like best friends. All she wanted was her last name back (it's 2017 and she's still using my name). But seriously if she has no job and or no skills how will she survive?
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Old 10-28-2017, 10:41 PM
 
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EA - The only way to do a cheap divorce is for you and the lady to sit down and write out a full division of the estate and the children. Who gets what and with what conditions. If you can agree on all that I will be glad to put you in touch with a paralegal who will do the paperwork for a few hundred dollars.

I have actually watched over a successful split of this sort. Though both my daughter and her husband are mildly nuts and the successful termination of the marriage involved the offices of a huge extended family. And basically they stayed married to some extent. They coordinate on children stuff to a degree most married couples do not.

But make sure it is the best way to go. It is not without peril..as you may well find out.

And if you cannot agree in detail it is lawyer time. And often financial disaster to the collective.
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Old 10-28-2017, 11:31 PM
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Location: Las Vegas
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We don't argue out loud. It's all in messages. Kids never hear anything. But they do know we hate each other.
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Old 10-29-2017, 12:28 AM
 
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Prenup
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Old 10-29-2017, 07:09 AM
 
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EA, I can't be of any help, but I offer you my sincere condolences. I wouldn't wish divorce on my worst enemy, as it is a lifelong sentence of pain and grief.
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Old 10-29-2017, 08:28 AM
 
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I am sorry to hear about your break up. I would be careful though as it might get ugly especially if she commiserates with her friends who give her ideas. I would also be prepared to fight alimony or spousal support. I had a friend who got bled dry by spousal support for years by a vindictive ex-wife. Hopefully you can talk her into just walking away.
https://www.divorcenet.com/states/ne...y_weakest_link. Be very careful too as one ploy is for her to tell the cops you hit her or threatened her even if you did nothing. Then she gets a protection order that excludes you from your residence. Another dirty trick is to claim you are abusing the kids. This too will kick you out of the house. I'm really hoping it goes smoothly but protect yourself in case it doesn't.

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Old 10-29-2017, 04:14 PM
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Location: Las Vegas
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I am sorry to hear about your break up. I would be careful though as it might get ugly especially if she commiserates with her friends who give her ideas. I would also be prepared to fight alimony or spousal support. I had a friend who got bled dry by spousal support for years by a vindictive ex-wife. Hopefully you can talk her into just walking away.
https://www.divorcenet.com/states/ne...y_weakest_link. Be very careful too as one ploy is for her to tell the cops you hit her or threatened her even if you did nothing. Then she gets a protection order that excludes you from your residence. Another dirty trick is to claim you are abusing the kids. This too will kick you out of the house. I'm really hoping it goes smoothly but protect yourself in case it doesn't.




I have screen caps of her admitting that I have never touched her. I also have them of her admitting to disciplining the kids the same way I have.

Anything she can use against me, I can use against her.

I may make a lot of dumb decisions, but fighting with a woman online is not one of them. I have a record of everything.

I also have her admitting to having mental issues. I have her sister stating that she has mental issues.

I am not going to go into details here, but I have a pretty slam dunk case.
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