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Originally Posted by Elke Mariotti
Requests for sellers' concessions (or getting it) can backfire. Two reasons:
1. Many sellers don't want/like/understand the subject
2. It will increase the selling price for mortgage purposes and the appraisal now has to come in as "asking price PLUS concession", which can be a problem
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Well, yeah on number 2. Obviously it would have to be a situation where the seller's motivation to get out is greater than their motivation to recoup absolute full value, but I've been advised that we should at least ask for it if we aren't absolutely DYING to get into the home at the seller's terms (aka, ok with walking away at the end of the day).
So I guess I understand your point that requesting it could backfire in that it could be a non-starter in negotiations - but wouldn't that simply be PART of a negotiation? What I guess I don't get is how is would backfire if we got it, the second part of your comment.
To the next respondent: yeah I know I pay PMI on any loan, conventional or otherwise, under 20% - I just wasn't sure you COULD get a conventional at less than 20%. What would be the advantages of exploring that - less up front fees? Easier to get out of the PMI if I could afford to pay above the minimum monthly P+I and accelerate my amortization table (no 5 year minimum period, I presume, although I'm not sure how realistic that is anyway)?
And is the up-front PMI option only on conventional mortgages (I assume so considering the 5 year minimum period on an FHA)?
I only ask because I often see FHA loans associated with 'riskier' lendees - our down payment is low, undoubtedly, which makes us "risky" in that sense, but our income (not in and of itself, obviously, but in the sense of how it compares to what we were approved for vs. what price range we are looking at) and credit I think separates us out from your typical "FHA" lendee - but maybe I'm wrong and its not even worth exploring other options.
We have friends who are neck-deep in debt making half our salary but who got larger downpayment "gifts" from family/wedding proceeds - I just don't see how a one-time or so windfall of cash makes them less "risky" than us, I guess is my curiosity in all this.
Thanks again for the responses!!
(And yes, I know some are going to jump on the whole low down payment thing makes me more likely to run away from the whole thing if something goes bad and I anticipate a lecture on needing 100K+ saved before I consider home ownership - to which I respond, just not in the cards)