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Originally Posted by Jrprofess
...sometimes it does work out for people who leave the region and it looks like this has been the case for slynn. That is a great thing for you, your family, your jobs, etc. Just as staying in this region has been great for my family, career, etc. Different strokes for different folks. My issue is well cited on here: I take offense to those who leave a region and come back onto the board implying that those who stay are fools. It is crass and uninformed. Also, I have issue with somebody coming onto the board claiming all of Long Island is spiraling into the pits of hell because the town they grew up in, which accounts for maybe 20,000 out of the 3 million residents here, is not how they remember it growing up. Your personal experience is just that: yours. Generalizations are ignorant. Let me be clear Slynn I am not including you in those remarks. Continued luck to you and your family.
JRP
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Nicely stated.
Like you, staying in the region has been a benefit for the OhBeeHave family. Our business has a wonderful reputation with local people; to uproot in search of less taxes would be a poor trade off. Our business would have to start from scratch (long, costly and not where someone middle aged wants to be in his field) or DH would have to take a job working for someone in an area where salary for his talent is a small slice of what they are here.
Not everyone can go elsewhere transferring with a company or within a company. It's great for those who can do that -- more power to them!
Years ago I was with a company which allowed transfers throughout the USA. Needless to say, FL was the #1 spot. An employee could grow old waiting for an opening. When the transfer finally came through, we would all hear about how wonderful, weather, $, yadda, yadda, yadda, just like we do here. I've often wondered, though, if while we hear aout how good it is there, if the same person is telling the people there how good this and that was back here? I've seen it with my own family.
I do wish my friends and neighbors who relocate all the best. If things get better for them -- I am very happy. If things don't -- I am here to listen.
Never once will I slam someone's decision to stay or go. It's way too personal. On the other hand, I would prefer that people respect my reasons for staying as opposed to coming along and bragging. I'd rather hear, "My life has worked out better in my new town; I have a home I love and the children are doing well in school. I've saved on my taxes and utilities, too. This was right for me."