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Do you think LI'ers deserve the reputation as shifty and always looking to get around the law?
I suspect that the source of the post (the North Carolina forum) has a lot to do with that viewpoint -- meaning that from what I have read on that state's forum, there seem to be many native North Carolineans who resent the influx of so many Northeasterners (a great majority of which are former Long Islanders) bringing our "damn Yankee ways" onto their turf.
The Charlotte board always seems to have posts that complain about or make fun of "northerners".
Cities that get an influx of transplants always end up with some bitter natives.
When I lived in Las Vegas, a lot of the natives (or transplants who've lived there for many years) would complain about "all those Californians moving here and trying to change everything".
Don't move to NC or SC those most of those people don't get New Yorkers.
Why do they have to "get" New Yorkers? Ever think that maybe it's the New Yorkers who should be working on "getting" the area they're moving into?
I adjusted to life down here and got into the traditions, history, culture and way things were done in the South (aka my new home) the same way I was into my home town. A sense of place and history is something I think a lot of Long Islanders have lost.
I think the real problem arises when outsiders (sometimes economic refugees) come into an area and immediately start to insult it and claim it inferior. Hey, if things were so great up North then why did they have to head south?
Why do they have to "get" New Yorkers? Ever think that maybe it's the New Yorkers who should be working on "getting" the area they're moving into? ......
I think the real problem arises when outsiders (sometimes economic refugees) come into an area and immediately start to insult it and claim it inferior.
I don't think the North-Is-Better attitude situation always applies though. IMHO in most cases it's more that our NY Metro/Yankee habits and personalities often just don't mesh well with Southern culture. We talk fast (especially as compared to most Southerners!), we drive fast, we tend to be impatient with waiting (as opposed to the laid-back 'manana' mindset of the South), and let's face it, Long Islanders especially are pretty much used to instant gratification when it comes to being able to locate something or getting something done. In short, our faster-paced personalities and lifestyles grate on many Southern sensibilities even if we don't say a word about How Things Were Up North.
Of course it works both ways and many transplanted Yankees feel frustrated that Southern life seems to resemble a 78- or 45-rpm record being played at 33.
It's not always possible for a transplant to change his or her personality or lifelong habits to conform to what's normal in their new location -- even if they want to do so. My SO and I know in our gut that we could never stand the slower pace of Southern living and that's why we'd never move there.
I'm probably out of line, but IMHO to Clark Street Kid I have to say that although you're morally right, first of all I don't think the other poster meant anything negative about the fact that NC folks just don't get New Yorkers, because they probably don't--they've been southern all their lives. It's just the way it is from culture to culture. There are differences. Doesn't mean either culture is superior or inferior, just different. And, second of all, it's nice that you've tried to fit into the south, but I bet if push came to shove your friendly southern neighbors would still consider you a Northerner and probably will for the next 20 years. And, if they had a job opening they'd be likely to give it to a fellow southerner, if both of you were up for the same job, before they'd give it to you! Again, it's just the way it is. Basically, we're all proud of who we are and where we came from and none of us like people from other places coming in and telling us how we should run things and especially how their way is quicker, more efficient or better in some way. And, it seems people are also usually threatened simply by "different". It's human nature! And, let's face it southerners and northerners not only talk different, they have a very different culture right from birth.
I'm probably out of line, but IMHO to Clark Street Kid I have to say that although you're morally right, first of all I don't think the other poster meant anything negative about the fact that NC folks just don't get New Yorkers, because they probably don't--they've been southern all their lives. It's just the way it is from culture to culture. There are differences. Doesn't mean either culture is superior or inferior, just different. And, second of all, it's nice that you've tried to fit into the south, but I bet if push came to shove your friendly southern neighbors would still consider you a Northerner and probably will for the next 20 years. And, if they had a job opening they'd be likely to give it to a fellow southerner, if both of you were up for the same job, before they'd give it to you! Again, it's just the way it is. Basically, we're all proud of who we are and where we came from and none of us like people from other places coming in and telling us how we should run things and especially how their way is quicker, more efficient or better in some way. And, it seems people are also usually threatened simply by "different". It's human nature! And, let's face it southerners and northerners not only talk different, they have a very different culture right from birth.
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