wow! that is going to be a tough transition!!!! my only advice for you would be to live near a metrolink station. you can send your daughter on the train to downtown LA and from there she can hop on the big blue bus #10 line which is an express bus to to santa monica. i'd imagine that she'll be attending SMC though, which is off Pico and I believe the #10 bus uses Santa Monica Blvd once it exits the 10 freeway. you'll need to check
www.bigbluebus.com, but i think that the city/college offers a free shuttle for students that she could probably take from SM blvd down to Pico.
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Metrolink :: Welcome, there is a station in Fullerton, which is very close to Brea and a very nice area to boot.