Originally Posted by On The Go
I just happened to drop in on the postings this a.m. and ran across this one. I thought I'd write my comment, which is, of course....just my thinking.
I was raised in North LA (Bossier City/Shreveport area) from 2 yrs. old and lived there until I was 44 yrs old. I then moved to New Orleans (WOW! what a culture shock! I so enjoyed the many diverse things available to do and the deep French history which surrounded the place, but just a 'little too much for me' there, as far as living there was concerned). I was there 8 mos., then moved to Atlanta, GA (Oh now you talk about 'culture', they have it!!), where I lived for 7 mos. After that, I returned back to live in the North LA area again for 5 yrs. Now that move back was a hard adjustment, because it was then that I realized that North LA IS country! But that's o.k., what's wrong with 'country'? Then in 1987, we moved to the Bootheel of Missouri (speaking of culture shock!) South Missouri is 'backwoods', but I suppose that is o.k. as well.....just not for me. Then after 1 yr. we moved to St. Louis, MO in 1988, where we lived until 1995....and LOVED every minute of it! There's any and everything in St. Louis that one could ever hope to do. It is steeped in history with the mighty Mississippi River running through it! Every day could be an adventure and many free to inexpensive things to do and see. The plays, the musicals, the Arch, Grants Farms, Anheiser Busch Brewery, the restaurants.....and the people!!! When we retired in 1995, bought a motor home, sold our house, gave our kids everything that we had, hit the road.....where we continue to live ('On The Road' in our motor home), we can have all of the best of worlds. We can be in Bossier City/Shreveport, if we want to be 'country', or be in New Orleans, LA if we want to be 'artsy' or have great food and listen to jazz, or be in St. Louis, MO if we want the wonder of excitement, listen to more jazz, have culture and ambiance all around us. OR...we can (and do) go to Old Mexico and stay for 3-4 mos. each trip. NOW THAT'S A CULTURE SHOCK! With the poverty right beside the wealth. With pole houses and dirt floors sitting beside a beautiful resort. With family being the most important thing in their lives. It doesn't matter there. They are HAPPY and CONTENT! And talking about friendly! They know what it means and we LOVE being there too. It's all in what one makes of their circumstances and situations.
We believe that we have to make our own culture and our own class. Sometimes it's not right around us at the time, BUT.....we must find it if it is that that we crave. Long story short: who cares about whether we have respect from Texas or whether get even have it from South Louisiana people. We find our 'respect' from within......it's not something given to us. We just LOVE IT ALL!
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