This has what it's come down to for us -- Benton or Haughton? Which is better?
We're considering a house in Spring Creek II in Haughton (a new subdivision-- only five or six houses in there so far) or somewhere in the Crouch Rd/Linton Cutoff area of Benton. We want a more rural/small town feel where we live. I really have a better feeling about Benton, although I don't know why. Hubby feels better about Haughton, and he also doesn't know why.

I think it's that I think of Benton as cleaner/more well-kept (although not drastically so...and I know there are still bad areas of Benton), and hubby thinks of Haughton as more rural.
Schools are of utmost importance, as we have three little ones just starting in school. (Our oldest is in 2nd grade, middle will start Pre-K next fall, youngest is 2.) Since we don't really like the almost-Bossier area of Haughton, the schools would probably be T.L Rodes/Platt/Haughton Middle/Haughton High/etc. versus Benton schools. Which are better, and for what reasons? We're interested in a close-knit feel to the school/family type atmosphere and fun activites; we don't care so much about academic excellence, although we obviously would like for them to learn, too-- we'd just rather them have a fun, happy experience in school rather than be little educational soldiers. Our oldest is coming from a tiny school (180 kids in PK-12) where he doesn't even have to wear uniforms, so we'd like an easy transition into a nice, laid-back school if possible.
Bossier & Shreveport are not an option. Traffic makes my husband want to hurt someone, and I want to be closer to my mommy (in EXTREME north Louisiana), so Benton & Haughton are as far as I'll go.
More about us: We don't like snotty people. We are not trying to keep up with the Joneses. We are laid-back, we like to shop at Wal-Mart for everything, we don't care about having the newest/most expensive stuff. We are young (27 and 26), and our kids are 8, 4, and 2.
Jobs don't matter. Hubby works in the oil field and can live anywhere in the continental U.S., and I work at home doing medical transcription and can live anywhere with high-speed Internet.
So, from all this, where do you think we should live -- Benton or Haughton?