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Originally Posted by Need to Relocate
Many thanks for your advice. It is so unexpected. She was here to see our house warming and our horses and pets arrive safely and after she went home her health fell apart abruptly. And now I find out the sibling that said she'd help, can't  It's very bittersweet to leave the patch of heaven on earth we found here. Thanks to all the Mainers that have been so kind to us. We have enjoyed our stay so very much.
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Would it have been easier to save your home and move mom to you?
It is a shame you have to give up so much. Give it some thought.
When my wife and I moved from Maine to California, my mom wouldn't have been able to stay in her home...she needed care. I insisted she move to Ca with us....we were going...that was a significant life decision we had made.
My mom lived comfortably for four more years in her own condo in our building here in CA before she died. I never regretted the decision, and I am glad we didn't elect to stay in Maine with mom.