We were always fed blackeyed peas, cabbage and cornbread on New Year's day. Whether you liked peas or not, everyone in the house had to eat at least a spoonful to ensure good fortune for the new year. We never did the corned beef that a lot of people do.
So, of course, in keeping with tradition, I always feed my family "the meal" NY day. I just never understood, since that particular meal is a meal of the poor here, how it equates with prosperity and good fortune.
But my grandma did it, my mother did it, I do it, and I hope my children will continue to do it.
As I've grown and adapted to my own set of beliefs and convictions, which revolved heavily around my reverence for nature, I incorporate a few other little rituals to honor the turning wheel and rebirth in the new year.
I do not do New Year's resolutions. The practice has always seemed futile to me. I used to declare my resolutions boldly and with much determination - because all my friends did. As their focus and fuel waned, so did mine - because I only did it because it sounded good. I've learned to follow my heart and know that I am in a constant state of change and improvement. There's no better time than the present to make positive changes in your life!
I wish for everyone a healthy, happy and prosperous 2008 and beyond!