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Originally Posted by tcrackly
Think "Boston bedroom community".
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You know, I hear this from time to time from different people up here and I don't get it. I came from a "Boston bedroom community" and Southern Maine is nothing like it. I agree that Southern Maine is certainly a bit different than Northern Maine (or even Mid-coast Maine). It's a bit more expensive and a bit more densely populated but that doesn't make it a Boston bedroom community. I think people say this because it is a bit more expensive than Northern Maine and there is a higher population density and Boston just happens to be the closest significant city so it fits. However, it couldn't be further from the truth.
Maine as a whole is one of the more rural states in the nation. Northern Maine is one of the most rural areas you'll find in the lower 48. Just because Southern Maine isn't quite that sparsely populated or cheap (in terms of cost of living) doesn't make it similar to one of the largest and most densely settled metropolitan areas in the country.
I really dislike the comparison. For one, there are few areas more expensive to live in the U.S. than Metro Boston (Bay Area/Silicon Valley, Metro NYC, and some of metro LA may be the only places). Southern Maine, though more expensive than Northern Maine, isn't even in the same ballpark. An apartment anywhere within Route 128 around Boston will cost DOUBLE what you'll pay for an identical apartment in the most elite area in the Portland area or in Kittery or York.
Traffic even at the most heavily congested times in Southern Maine isn't in the same league as just about anywhere in Eastern Massachusetts (from Cape Cod to Newburyport). It just doesn't come close.
Southern Maine isn't very suburbanized. At least not nearly to the same degree that most of Eastern Massachusetts is. Even still, the most suburban areas in Maine are right around Portland and it's a very small area (mostly concentrated in Portland itself, South Portland, Scarborough, Falmouth, Cape Elizabeth and an occasional neighborhood in Gorham and Yarmouth). Kittery, York, Wells, Ogunquit, Kennebunk, etc are all mostly spared this suburbanization as well. In fact, the bulk of "suburbanization" is along Route 1. Once off of route 1, it quiets down and gets rural quickly (except of course, on the waterfront, but find me oceanfrontage anywhere with the exception of Alaska and far Eastern Maine with no clusters of housing). No, it's not as rural as Northern Maine (not many places are), but it's not even CLOSE to the endless sprawl that makes up most of Eastern MA.
These Southern Maine towns have more charm and quaintness than just about any suburb of Boston. They're also a lot less densely settled. Sure, the summer months may be a bit busier, but this is true of most of New England. Comparing Southern Maine's set up to suburban Boston is unfair an inaccurate on all counts. In fact, it would be more fair to compare it with Cape Cod, but even then it's a bit of a stretch as Cape Cod lacks the quiet, undeveloped spots just off of the primary routes that Southern Maine has.
Don't be discouraged by Southern Maine. it may not be as sparsely settled and secluded as it's northern other half, but it's CERTAINLY not like the Boston area. In fact, it's a heck of a commute to Boston from even Kittery. To commute into Boston from Kittery (assuming you live right near the highway) on a weekday morning you're looking at well over an hour (with traffic, expect it to be close to 2 hours) because you're bound to sit in traffic when you get into the Boston area. On a clear (non-holiday Saturday and Sunday are usually the only "clear" days) day it's still around an hour and ten minutes to an hour and 20 minutes to Boston. It's HARDLY a bedroom community.
If you're looking further South than Portland, you'll find that the most thickly suburbanized and settled areas are just across the State Line in New Hampshire. Again, Route 1 contains most box retail and suburban shopping in Southern Maine. It really isn't that bad.
I don't blame you for not wanting to live in the Boston suburbs. It's a miserable existence (unless you can afford to fork over $3 million for a nice tudor in Newton). I am looking forward to living in Boston, but I mean IN Boston where i can live within walking distance of everything and live car free and rely on transit to get me where I need to go. Commuting into town by car is a nightmare. Even commuting within the suburbs is a pain as it's densely populated and and there's a lot of congestion. No worries, even most thickly settled and suburbanized areas of Southern Maine don't approach this.
Now, you did ask about a comparison between Portland and Kittery/York. Both are nice options. I really like Kittery and York (Blue Sky on York Beach is my favorite restaurant in Maine). I also love Portsmouth NH across the river. Downtown Portsmouth is architecturally and functionally very similar to Portland's Old Port (Portland is a little more than twice Portmouth's size). I actually feel that Portsmouth has a more in tact historic district than the Old Port. It also does offer the same types of venues for someone looking for good restaurants, bars, shops, etc. Market Square in Portsmouth is VERY similar to the plaza in the center of the Old Port. You won't be sacrificing many amenities in that regard by choosing one of those areas over the other.
The Fox-Run Mall is the nearest suburban retail center (Newington NH has most of the box stores and malls) to Kittery. It's not in the same ballpark as the Maine Mall. the Maine Mall area is better. I enjoy the concentration of suburban retail in Portland better than Portsmouth. Portland's airport is much better as well.
The coast in Portland is equally as beautiful as the coast in the Kittery/York/Portsmouth area. Portland gets the advantage with Casco Bay and the Islands though. It's a little less rocky in the Kittery area, but not too much. The cost of an apartment is similar in both areas. It may be harder to find a place in Kittery than in the Portland area (most rentals around Kittery will be seasonal with the bulk of year-round rentals in Portsmouth).
As far as "convenience of commute to Boston" goes, it's a tossup and depends on what you're looking for. Kittery/York is obviously closer to Boston in terms of distance. So if your husband's plan is to drive when he needs to get into town, then Kittery/York are about 40 minutes or so closer than Boston. However, Boston is an EXPENSIVE city to drive into. If you're husband plans on driving to town and parking he can plan on spending anywhere from $25-45 per day to park. When you combine that with $3 in tolls (assuming he doesn't go over the Tobin Bridge in Boston which is another $3.50 and you live South of the York Toll) and the 2 hours or so each direction, it may not be worth it. If that doesn't sound appealing, Portland and Amtrak's Downeaster (assuming it doesn't go out of service in September) and various Bus Services make it a bit more affordable and convenient for people commuting. It may be about 40 minutes longer from Portland by bus, but it's actually cheaper than driving (especially when you factor in parking tolls and gas) and your husband can relax and not let the stress of traffic get to him.
Judging by the fact that you've already fallen in love with Portland and the fact that it's not all that much worse of a commute to Boston when your husband needs to go (plus Portland has more alternate ways to town), I'd say go with Portland. I don't think Kittery or York are THAT much more convenient. In fact, they're both relatively inconvenient to Boston. If you love Portland as much as it seems like you do, then I don't know if it's really worth it to settle on Kittery or York. Though if you DO have to "settle" you could do a LOT worse than Kittery or York. That area is not at all like metro Boston, so if you do have to consider that more seriously, don't worry. Best of luck, Sunday1