I would definately look at Columbia Annapolis, and Bowie. I lived in Chicago myself for a time, and the difference between here and there is huge!
All three locations have a lot of the conveniences you're used to in Chicago. If you're looking for the urban amenities in a suburban setting, Columbia or Bowie would be right. If you want a more urban feel, annapolis may make sense, but there are quite a few areas in between that are not as crowded.
If you have any questions about the region in particular, I'll be more than happy to send you a regional synopsis!
Jonathan Benya
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