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Originally Posted by sofullone
I am looking for a carrer that will give me flexibility in starting a family and be able to have a life outside of work.
Please help.
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I commend you for wanting to go into teaching. I am a teacher and will return to work this coming fall after a 4 year childcare "hiatus." I'm not relishing returning because in some ways it will be like going through my first year of teaching again, even though I taught for 10 years prior to going on leave. Particulary in my speciality in the county I work in much has changed and I'm going to have to get up to speed, and quick.
I tell you this because teaching is - like the job you currently have - extremely stressful. There are alot of demands and expectations and you are going to constantly have to "put on programs" day in and day out. People don't realize this but teaching (and I'm speaking strictly from the public school system; I have not taught at a private school and can't speak from experience in a private setting) is extremely political. There is a lot of pressure from the top (read MSDE and Grasmick, actually read Obama on downward) and the teachers get the brunt of it when the data does not look good overall for their school. Also, I'm sure you've heard that obama wants merit-based pay for teachers; while I don't necessarily think that's a bad idea, it will increase the pressure to perform (which is a good thing in terms of getting quality teachers in many ways).
NO matter what you hear from anyone who constantly focuses on the fact that teachers "have the summer off" and get paid for it (not true - I get paid for 10 months and the mandatory teacher training days I have to take during my "summer off"), teaching is FAR from a nine-to-five job, especially if you want to do it right. It IS good to coordinate with a child's schedule if you happen to work in the same district and even if your kid goes to a private school/school out of district, usually the holidays will sync up.
However, your student teaching is not going to be like your first real teaching job. When the safety net is completely gone, it's going to be a whole other ballgame. Depending on the environment at your school, you are going to either have a supportive team that will help you out as much as possible that first year (but you will still be doing tons and tons of work) or you're going to get a bitchy crew that thinks newbies should prove their worth and they won't help you much, if at all. The principal is either involved and supportive or involved and not supportive or not present much at all. The parents - well, they can be worse than the kids. And then the kids. . . depending on your school, you could have a rough bunch --- it IS possible to teach while pursuing certification (not sure if al school systems around here require a Master's to start yet or not - probably on that track since all must be "highly qualified" under No Child Left Behind) but that means teaching in a very high needs area (read = inner city, very improverished, high dropout rate (you mentioned high school but it really doesn't matter what level if you go this route) for a contracted length of time especially if you want to get your education paid for (i.e., any school debt forgiven).
Going to school while teaching it not an easy task. I did it, and luckily before we had kids. No way with them around in the early years. Please, if you try this career, do it before you have children because doing student teaching/first year teaching with a newborn is next to impossible.
I don't mean to be a buzzkill but you have to understand that teaching is not a walk in the park. Until I had kids, every single night I worked I brought home a bag of stuff that needed to be done or at least worked on, and I teach at the elementary level. I don't plan on repeating this much this time around as my priorities have shifted; I also plainly don't have the time I used to have at home. But I also have a decade of experience and i'm not starting right out of the gate. After 10 years I know how to work smarter, not harder. But it took me almost 5 of those 10 years to get there and feel like I really knew what I was doing. A very high percentage of teachers quit within the first 5 years.
I recommend substitute teaching as a way to get exposure and your feet wet and see if it's for you - it's not like being the 'real teacher" either but at least you will get a feel for thea cademic and social/emotional needs of kids nowadays.
What about other occupations that allow even more flexibility of schedule, such as something in the medical field (i.e., nursing?)?