Congratulations! I love that you're just up & going.. just the 2 of you!

We're also in the midst of planning..
Check out the Chatham Bars Inn.. ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!
Chatham Bars Inn, Grand Oceanfront Resort, Cape Cod
It's located right on the ocean in a great little town in the cape! It's also a B&B and the food is wonderful!!! It might be a nice weekend type thing.. in between your travels! I haven't stayed at the Inn before, but we often drive down there to the lighthouse beach for a picnic. The ocean is massive, and there are seals everywhere! One of the prettiest sites in Cape Cod and amazing sunsets!!! Definetly look them up!
I am also researching wedding sites out this way and if I had the budget, (we're having about 150 guests) I would TOTALLY go there!
Also dig through [SIZE=-1]www.
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Best of luck!