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LVKim8

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  1. jimrich
    09-18-2014 12:48 AM - permalink
    jimrich
    Hello:
    I was so moved by what you wrote about Caregiver Acceptance/Rejection that I googled it. I did come up with Attachment Parenting so it looks like I will learn something. What amazed me about your post is how on target it is re: why certain people PRAISE spanking, hitting, etc and other forms of ACCEPTABLE abuse such as our violent dad did to us kids while our "passive" mother did nothing to defend us! They were both 1st kids and I assume that they, like my older brother, were well bonded to their abusive parents so they just passed that parenting model on to us kids. I was NOT well bonded to my parents and now it makes sense why I never saw their abuses as good or loving. I believe my older brother happily took his savage beating from dad as some kind of proof that dad LOVED us!
    Respectfully yours,
    jimrich

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