Oh, I bet she will visit..

She is just trying to scare you into staying.
It is not easy moving far away from home, I moved away when I was 18 all the way to TX. But I do not think that I would be as happy as I am now if I had not gotten out of NY when I did. You can always come back if you hate it there. We're not going anywhere..
The only really hard part is taking care of the kids with noone there to help. That was (and is) the hardest thing I have had to deal with.
But man it is a looong drive to Memphis - done it several times. You'd better have a serious webpage and 24 hr. webcam going if you are going to take blondie away from her grandma.

Or she will move in with you!

