Originally Posted by CArizona
lubby...Thanks for your posts. I always enjoy hearing about your husband and your happy marriage and your Mom and the rest of your family too. And the way that you go "all out" for holidays to make the day special and fun for everyone!...I was probably the one who helped my husband become a little more assertive at work! And with his family too!...He helped me learn to "mellow-out" and have more fun in life. He had a way of making simple little things so exciting and special!...I helped him "get past" all of the technical writing he had to do on his job and learn to express himself in personal ways...He used to read what he wrote to me on forums. He was so cute and proud that he "got past" his old "barriers."....Anyway I think that we have a lot of wonderful things to learn from our spouses! I know you feel this way too. Marriage doesn't have to be "hell on earth!" YUK!
We are one of the few couple in our age group that have a good marriage. Many couples my husband knows can't stand their spouse. It's a shame, why get married or stay married? I guess if you have kids which we don't it's harder to seperate.