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Originally Posted by thewarmup20
okay so what happened was i was like in like 5th grade over my friends house and his little brother kept saying things about sex and stuff and he was pulling down his pants and i was young and i didnt know what i was feeling at the time but i pulled mine down to and we touched each other and thats what i remembered. like i said im not gay that just happened and i was young and didnt know what to do and now i feel guilty and im scared of the future like what will happen if he like reports it or something please help me please this is serious and idk what to do and i wasnt playing girls the first time it didnt work out between us and i moved on please help
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"Children" are NOT charged with sex crimes like an adult would be if he did that to a child. BIG difference!
Furthermore it is quite normal for kids to experiment and check out each other's parts. This is part of growing up and learning.
Note that there is no sexual interest as this was before puberty. Also note that high school boys will also experiment with each other - then go on to be totally straight - get married, etc. Perfectly normal. (Men do not talk about these things except sometimes on the internet.)
Anyway you have NOTHING to be concerned about. "Straight" means you are attracted to women. "Gay" means you are attracted to men. And it does not mean a whole lot these days anyway - your business what you prefer. And nothing wrong with what you did as a child - no one can "report" you for anything!
As for the "reporting" thing... Something which may help you... Grown straight men will sometimes go to a gay bar to meet another man to experiment with. And these men are SCARED to death that someone they know will be there, see them, and go tell everyone! Now let's think this through...
Wouldn't the other guy ALSO not want anyone to know he was there? So NO WAY is the other guy there going to say the person they knew was there - because people would ask what they were doing there too!!!
So same with your situation as a child. The other kid will never mention this to anyone because he was also participating! (Not to worry - forgetaboutit!)