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Originally Posted by scottmi
1) YES, you will miss your family and if you move VERY far away, you may not be able to see them except maybe once a year...perhaps longer. HOWEVER, since you are at least married, you won't be venturing out into a new state ALONE, which is quite daunting.
2) YES, looking for work outside of the state is VERY expensive & time consuming. This is the only way I can think of doing a long-distance move where a few-hour long car-ride won't get you there (and really, the only states nearby are Ohio, Indiana and Illinois...states I'd REALLY avoid): You should send out your info ALL OVER the country using Monster, Career Builder, Craigslist, etc.....don't be state selective, shove them EVERY PLACE imagineable.
Let potential employers know that you are willing to be interviewed but only if they foot the bill completely for the interview and if they cover part or all of your moving expenses. YES, this will radically reduce your chances but even if only 1% of the companies you aim for take you up on this, you can almost bet your job is guaranteed (afterall, why would a company buy plane tickets, pay for hotels, etc. if they weren't super interested???). You might be living in Idaho instead of California or Florida but you know what? A good job is better than NO job or a job that is going nowhere fast.
3) YES, moving out of state is VERY expensive. If you have a house now in Michigan, it'll be even more expensive when you're paying a mortgage until it sells and rent/mortgage in a new place as well. I'd suggest having a few thousand dollars at least at your disposal when a move might happen.
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I used Monster.com and the company that I'm now working for did a telephone interview -- the negotiations went on for 4 months before I finally made the move. I received MANY inquiries from all over the country, but I wanted to stay on the east coast or the southeast states. What I have found is that most employers are willing to do a telephone interview but, once hired, you will be on a 90-day probationary period (understandable), so in THAT time you need to focus on your job 150% in order to prove that you were a good hire. (I was almost passed over for this job because my boss expected me down here in September, but I couldn't get here until October -- but he has since told me that I was the best choice he could have made and the wait was well worth it.)
I asked EVERY question I could think of (still got a few surprises -- guess you can't think of EVERYTHING). Hubby is still in Michigan, but will be coming down to South Carolina as soon as our home sells. Yes, I miss him terribly (he is my main source of moral support) but we spend HOURS on the phone at night. I've met some great friends here (also from Michigan) who have taken me under their wing and allowed me to rent their camper, temporarily, so that I could save on motel bills. Although my expenses are reimbursed, I need to pay them FIRST, and then wait 2 weeks before being reimbursed. I figured that I needed $3000 cash before coming here -- which required me putting off Michigan bills for a month, but I caught them all up with my first good paycheck.
I'm on per diem right now because my permanent residence is in Michigan, so THAT money covers the expenses of living here (just found a house to rent for $575) along with food, utilities, internet, cable, etc. Once the house in Michigan sells, and we buy down here, the costs will be less, but I'll also lose the per diem. It all balances out.
I have a very dysfunctional family, so the only people I'll miss are my youngest daughter and my oldest granddaughter. However, we'll be able to visit them occasionally and they'll have a place in the south to visit.