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Old 08-25-2010, 12:02 PM
 
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I had a gentlemen at the gas station pay for my gas when he saw my combat veteran hat,I told him he did not have to do it,but he insisted and made my day.
Some years ago my dad (who was a WWII 101st Airborne vet) and I were at an air show at the old El Toro MCAS. There was a demonstration by the Golden Knights. After their jump he ended up in the ice cream line in back of a couple of them. He very quietly opened up his wallet to show them his Screaming Eagles patch which he always carried with him. They talked a bit and he sprung for the ice cream.

One of them came over to me and asked for his name and address. A couple of weeks later a Golden Knights poster came in the mail, inscribed to him and signed by them.

That made his day! He hung it in his entryway and it was the first thing you saw when you walked in the door.

BTW: I always thank anyone I see wearing the uniform. I have two Vietnam Vet brothers who never got their due when they served. I am SO glad things have changed in this country.
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Old 08-25-2010, 01:46 PM
 
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It's nice, but sometimes a little awkward. I just thank them right back.
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Old 08-25-2010, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Texas
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It's nice, but sometimes a little awkward. I just thank them right back.
Couldnt agree more, I appreciate them noticing and taking time to thank me. But it always leaves me feeling a little weird. Don’t really know what to say. Normally just go with, no problem and thank them for thanking me ha.
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Old 08-26-2010, 06:31 AM
 
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My, how times have changed.

When I served ( 65-67) the only guys who came up and thanked you were older men who hung around the bus depot.

They would state they also served in the same branch you did, then ask you for a few $$$.

Yup, scrufty ,street,panhandlers, were about the only ones .
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Old 08-26-2010, 06:47 PM
 
Location: The Great State of Texas, Finally!
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A few years ago I was at a store while in uniform. An older woman approached me and thanked me for my service. She had tears in her eyes and I have a real soft spot for senior citizens. I responded, as I do everytime I am thanked "It is my pleasure to serve" which is the God's honest truth. That made her tear up even more. LOL. But they were good tears, I guess, so it was okay.
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Old 08-26-2010, 07:10 PM
 
Location: USA
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I never saw an outpouring of thanks until say 10 or so years ago (911?). No one would know I ever served unless maybe the subject came up. I had a little job in the AF, but was proud to serve nonetheless. When there is a reason for thanking me, I proudly say "your welcome" and I always thank a veteran myself for his or her service.
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Old 08-28-2010, 09:49 PM
 
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It's nice, but sometimes a little awkward. I just thank them right back.
Ditto to this. It always made me a little uncomfortable. I didn't choose to serve for any kind of recognition. Now I am out, but my husband is still it. I sat next to a woman on a flight who knows nothing about the military, but watches the TV show Army Wives. Oh my goodness. That was quite a flight. She "sympathized" with me (again - I married my husband because I love him, not because I wanted a special title, well, other than Mrs. ) and asked me a ton of questions. At least I was able to clear up some misconceptions for her! lol
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Old 08-29-2010, 06:54 AM
 
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I often see military people dressed in military get up at the mall, restaurants, etc.

Was wondering if you guys like it when people come up to you and thank you or if you just like to be left alone?
It was weird at first because before the wars and 9/11 nobody did that stuff. Now it's not uncommon and I've sort of gotten used to it. It doesn't go unappreciated them letting us know we're appreciated. Funny how it becomes symbiotic appreciation.
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Old 08-29-2010, 06:56 AM
 
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I'm not actually military, but a lot of people assume I'm a military veteran. (No idea why, I guess they assume blind must mean blinded in Iraq.) Obviously it's awkward since I'm not actually military and they're thanking me for something I never did.
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Old 09-04-2010, 12:08 AM
 
Location: West Texas
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Back in the 60s I remember my dad alwas being in his fatigues or it seemed so.
I also remember him coming home home from his second tour in Vietnam in 68 and the insults names and the general disrespect he indured in silence.

As an eight year old boy seeing my dad go through that and he never said anything in responce, he just seemed to walk a little taller.

Maybe after five combat tours between Korea and Vietnam he didn't feel those who taunted him deserved the satisfaction of being noticed by him.

Like my dad I too served but in the Navy and both of us have been approached and thanked for our service.
It's humbly recieved and a thank you is returned but it has a different meaning for both of us.

For dad it brings back memories of those friends he lost in both conflicts, it shows in his face and tone of voice.

For me, I served during a time of peace having never experienced the horrors of war. So I feel the very least I can do is thank those who have served.
When I see a man wearing a ball cap that says Vietnam Vet I will always extend a welcome home also.

Thanks and welcome home to all who have served!
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