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I've been considering joining the army before it's too late, but I have some concerns. First, I have a wife and a 2 y/o daughter, how will military life effect them. Will I make enough to support them? Although I'm still of eligible age, is 34 too old without previous military experience? I currently own and run my own business but am getting tired m complacency and regret for not serving my country when I was younger. Also, I'm not sure I have too much to offer the army. I'm in decent shape (Run 25-35 miles a week), mechanically inclined, a hard worker, and a self starter... but I don't have a college degree, I'm old (by military standards) and I have family.
I've been considering joining the army before it's too late, but I have some concerns.
First, I have a wife and a 2 y/o daughter, how will military life effect them. That depends on a lot of factors. How do you think she will do while you are seperated?
Will I make enough to support them? I don't know... Your base pay will start at $1,546.80 if you start as an E-1. Being married you will get a housing allowance/or housing depending on where you are stationed. Some other allowences.
Also, I'm not sure I have too much to offer the army I'm in decent shape (Run 25-35 miles a week), Go see a recruiter... Also, look over their site.
As for the family, I'm working around Army folks now and you best believe they have families. And it works if she wants it to work. Is she or is she not on board with the whole idea?
Maturity is on your side. See if there are any programs that will give you E4 out of basic. Then be sure to keep all your requirements up to date. When you're at the year mark to get promoted, make sure all your ducks are in a row! You don't want them to say "well we could promote you but you don't have all your xyz completed".
Not sure why you're saying Army but there are other branches, you know! I do recommend active duty but in the Guard and Reserves you'll see people staying until they're 60. Crazy, I know. I had to get out before then!
I tried to join active duty army at 32 years of age, passed my physicals at MEPS and only thing I had to do was sign on the dotted line, but ended up not signing and went to reserves instead.
Few years ago, around 2006-2009, there were quite a bit of older people joining the Army due to the economy and the way the Army had raised the max enlistment age to 42 years of age (since brought back down to 34 years of age).
As long as you're fit and eager, shouldn't be a problem at all.
Make sure you want to join for the right reasons, and as mentioned above, that you sort out your family and how this will affect them.
When I tried to sign up at 32, it was mainly for patriotic reasons and to challenge myself. I would have given up a decent paying job, but it would have been worth it for me.
Some people will always have that regret of not signing up to join the military. Since you're 34, best to get in touch with a recruiter soon since you could be nearing the cut off age (have to be in basic training before turning 35 or something like that).
especially if there is a chance you will end up in a combat zone, if I had a wife & kid the last place I would want to be is serving in combat overseas
being a US Fighting man is best for younger single men without dependents, because if something happens to you it will have a big effect on your wife & kids
I always thought it was silly seeing young men joining some elite fighting unit and getting married before going to war
when your a US Fighting man your country comes first, having a wife and kid will not make you a good soldier, you will be worrying about them too much to do your job and that could mean getting killed in combat
especially if there is a chance you will end up in a combat zone, if I had a wife & kid the last place I would want to be is serving in combat overseas
being a US Fighting man is best for younger single men without dependents, because if something happens to you it will have a big effect on your wife & kids
I always thought it was silly seeing young men joining some elite fighting unit and getting married before going to war
when your a US Fighting man your country comes first, having a wife and kid will not make you a good soldier, you will be worrying about them too much to do your job and that could mean getting killed in combat
And yet...so many do it with no problem at all!
OP, it will be an adjustment for your wife. Sometimes things in the military simply cannot be explained, and this can be a challenge for those who are new to it. After a while you get used to it. Your wife will too.
Right now the Army is down sizing. At 34 you're probably pretty close to the maximum enlistment age. The thing about down sizing is the services get to be a little picky about who they'll take. If you need an age waiver, chances are they're going to pass on you and opt for someone else. So if this is something you are seriously considering, you need to get yourself down to the recruiter's office and get his perspective.
especially if there is a chance you will end up in a combat zone, if I had a wife & kid the last place I would want to be is serving in combat overseas
being a US Fighting man is best for younger single men without dependents, because if something happens to you it will have a big effect on your wife & kids
I always thought it was silly seeing young men joining some elite fighting unit and getting married before going to war
when your a US Fighting man your country comes first, having a wife and kid will not make you a good soldier, you will be worrying about them too much to do your job and that could mean getting killed in combat
There are many non combat jobs that don't require one to seek and destroy the enemy
As such, even if you're deploying to a combat zone, you won't be going outside the wire to fight the enemy
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