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Old 01-18-2010, 07:30 PM
 
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My son is interested in joining the Marines, however he is on an anti-depressent. Will it be possible for him to join once he is off the medication? his dr. is currently taking him off the meds to see how he does. Does the Marines do a complete medical background check on people? I know people don't always disclose all of those kinds of issues which I am uncomfortable with. I am just afraid his depression issue could keep him from doing something he would like to do.
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Old 01-18-2010, 07:48 PM
 
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My son is interested in joining the Marines, however he is on an anti-depressent. Will it be possible for him to join once he is off the medication? his dr. is currently taking him off the meds to see how he does. Does the Marines do a complete medical background check on people? I know people don't always disclose all of those kinds of issues which I am uncomfortable with. I am just afraid his depression issue could keep him from doing something he would like to do.
He was put on the meds for a reason during regular times...I can only imagine how he'd fare living for months in a tent or even the stress of basic...While I do not know the specifics of your son, but he could be really setting himself up for disaster...
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Old 01-19-2010, 05:04 AM
 
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You may need to do some more research on this, however, there are many different factors in this situation that only a recruiter is going to be able to help you with. It will depend on the severity of his depression, how he reacts off the meds, he'll also need to be off the medication for a year before he will even be considered. At that point they may require a waiver which has to go through the chain of command. Although this is something he truly wants to do, he needs to realize that his fellow Marines lives may be in his hands one day, and the Corps' main concern will be how he'll react in that situation.
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Old 01-19-2010, 05:25 AM
 
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I'm a Marine recruiter. Why was he put on medication? Who prescribed it? What i've found is alot of times people are over/mis-diagnosed. As far it's a teenager going through puberty/hormone changes who is naturally goign to be deressed so send him to a psyche and drug him up. The same with ADHD, which I legitimately have, but never took any medication for it(besides some tough love and occasional soft belt when I needed it).

Anyways, your son has to be off medication for at least a year. During that time he has to show no signs or symptoms. Judged by being able to finish school if a senior or hold down a steady job, if a grad. Statements from his psyche may be required as well. All copies of his medical files will be required. He also may pull a psyche eval at MEPS. If he has ever been suicidal, forget about it.

Those are the basics, based on the limited information you gave. I have a kid right now, who is in boot camp. He's 22. Back when he was sixteen he given prozac or zoloft by his family doctor for anxiety. He was on it for a very short time, didn't like it and came off. He had never been to a psychologist and never had any incidents aside from that. He was in community college when I met him. It was judged his anxiety was just puberty.
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Old 01-22-2010, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Matthews, NC
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This should go without saying but don't let the recruiter convince you or him to not disclose this information. Not saying all recruiters would do something like that but frankly, some would.
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Old 01-24-2010, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Fly-over country.
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This should go without saying but don't let the recruiter convince you or him to not disclose this information. Not saying all recruiters would do something like that but frankly, some would.
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Also, be advised he may need to get letters about his behavior from a few school teachers/counselor/officials.

At least, the MEPS, who processes all service applicants, would sometimes ask for these behavioral type letters when I was still recruiting (not USMC, but Army).

It's good for kids in school to get names and addresses of teachers, coaches and counselors who know them well anyway -- never know when you'll need them for reference/security clearance.
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Old 01-26-2010, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Hard aground in the Sonoran Desert
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I'm a Marine recruiter. Why was he put on medication? Who prescribed it? What i've found is alot of times people are over/mis-diagnosed. As far it's a teenager going through puberty/hormone changes who is naturally goign to be deressed so send him to a psyche and drug him up. The same with ADHD, which I legitimately have, but never took any medication for it(besides some tough love and occasional soft belt when I needed it).

Anyways, your son has to be off medication for at least a year. During that time he has to show no signs or symptoms. Judged by being able to finish school if a senior or hold down a steady job, if a grad. Statements from his psyche may be required as well. All copies of his medical files will be required. He also may pull a psyche eval at MEPS. If he has ever been suicidal, forget about it.

Those are the basics, based on the limited information you gave. I have a kid right now, who is in boot camp. He's 22. Back when he was sixteen he given prozac or zoloft by his family doctor for anxiety. He was on it for a very short time, didn't like it and came off. He had never been to a psychologist and never had any incidents aside from that. He was in community college when I met him. It was judged his anxiety was just puberty.
I'm an active duty Recruiting Supervisor who has been recruiting for 12 years and the advice given by macjr82 is spot on.

Don't try and hide this or fail to disclose it as your son will be sent home for a fraudulent enlistment when this comes out while in basic training.
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Old 01-26-2010, 04:40 PM
 
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I'm an active duty Recruiting Supervisor who has been recruiting for 12 years and the advice given by macjr82 is spot on.

Don't try and hide this or fail to disclose it as your son will be sent home for a fraudulent enlistment when this comes out while in basic training
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Just to drive this point home, I had a young man who went to boot camp last tuesday. By Friday it came out during the "moment of truth" that he had seen a psychologist for depression or something of that nature during his sr yr of High school in 08. He was referred by his parents. He had never disclosed that info to any recruiter or anyone at MEPS. From talking to his mom after the fact, it seems like it was something that would've been waived, but since it came out the way it did, he's headed home already. This guy had been in the delayed entry program since june or july last yr.

No matter what someones hiding or how long they've been hiding it, they'll start admitting to cutting in the lunch line in 5th grade during the moment of truth. The ones who make it past that indiscretions are often found out when their background checks come back.
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Old 01-27-2010, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Matthews, NC
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Just to drive this point home, I had a young man who went to boot camp last tuesday. By Friday it came out during the "moment of truth" that he had seen a psychologist for depression or something of that nature during his sr yr of High school in 08. He was referred by his parents. He had never disclosed that info to any recruiter or anyone at MEPS. From talking to his mom after the fact, it seems like it was something that would've been waived, but since it came out the way it did, he's headed home already. This guy had been in the delayed entry program since june or july last yr.

No matter what someones hiding or how long they've been hiding it, they'll start admitting to cutting in the lunch line in 5th grade during the moment of truth. The ones who make it past that indiscretions are often found out when their background checks come back.
I remember the MOT, that was a stressful day. We were up for almost 48 hours and then someone is yelling at you so you spit out everything you ever did.
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