What things do you like to do? Go out and do them and you'll meet people like yourself. If you're outdoorsy join a paddling club.
Or just volunteer for something. I've done that before and you'd be suprised. I'm volunteering for the local fire department, it'll be about 10 weeks before I actually do anything real, but I'm sure I'll meet lots of good people while training and will eventually do something for a community that I'm really falling in love with.
Or go take classes in something you like to do. Art, Tai Chi, photography?
Just some thoughts
