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Hi MN,
I feel strange about this but I need a little guidance. I have been single to long and I need to find a friend. I have tried the downtown Mpls night life (the clubs are so much fun and flirtatious- sweet),and I have tried the bar sceen but still, I feel like the 'bar guy" only focus on that particular night and not in tomarro and they come off so rude at times! I am not looking for "that" type of relationship- for me "that" takes time. I just want a standard friend, first. So where do professional hard working, classy, educated and available guys chill out?? I am sooo open for suggestions Last edited by lovinmyhair; 04-20-2008 at 05:09 PM. Reason: second guessing |
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That said... I met my wife on Yahoo Personals. We've been together for nine years and our 5th wedding anniversary is coming up this fall. So it's also possible to meet people online.Most of the single folks I know don't do bars or clubs at all. |
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I know online dating has worked for some people....it just wasn't for me- too many wierdos.
I'm still single at 34, so I'm starting to think more creatively. Currently I know the most gorgeous, intelligent, decent, thoughtful, successful, charming gentleman in the state....I'm talking about THE perfect catch. He's my chiropractor..... unfortunately however, he's married, so decided to put him to work for me to help me find a single guy of his "stock". Also, I ask questions about where he hung out when he was single, how he met his wife (who is super-nice, intelligent, pretty and is totally spoiled by him), what kind of girls interested him, what turned him off, basically.... how do I meet the newer, single version of HIM? If you happen to get a chance to grill one of these perfect married guys, investigate, research, ask him everything you can think of....and if he's really perfect, he'll be happy to help you. |
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I also met my wife through "Di's Meet People" back in 1992. We were married the following year. We have our 15th anniversary this week and have three great kids. While some of the single's ad's can be scary, I would say to not overlook some other ways to meet people. Bars are certainly not the place to find someone for a long lasting relationship. |
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Lunds in Uptown. Be there at 9:00 in the morning. What will you find?
Trendy cool guys who are shopping for their OWN groceries (not their wives or mothers shopping for them), probably own a cute condo in the area, are making decent money (to be able to afford Lunds), and aren't too hung over from the night before to get out and do their shopping! Good luck! |
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e.g. Him: "Gawd! Don't wear that! You look like a cheap, desperate divorcee' looking to land a sugar-daddy!!!" Me: "But maybe I want a sugar-daddy!" Him: "Fine! Just don't look cheap!" My gay friends have saved me time and again! ![]() |
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