I grew up in Lafayette County.
I'd say that Lexington is a safe place. Major crimes only happen once every few years. Of course there is some drugs but my experience is that if you aren't involved you won't even know its happening. I had never seen any drug use personally but there is the meth problem throughout rural America.
I love driving Lexington when I go back and stop at Maid-Rite. There is also a bookstore I enjoy when I go back, River Reader. Cannonball 6 movie theater is also great for the small town. There is several good restaurants, besides that Maid-Rite, McDonalds, Pizza Hut, and Sonic.
Lexington did loose their Pamida (Places, Mattingly/Matco--like a small town K-Mart) so you'll end up going out of town for some things. Lexington lost its KFC & Family Dollar as well.
Please support your local businesses if you do go to Lexington!!!! Harold's Supermarket recently changed to Harold's brother so its Dave's Country Market. For an ALDI's type experience their is Save-A-Lot. There is Dollar General. There is a few mechanics, NAPA, and a muffler/tire shop. There is some restaurants that are high quality for the size of Lexington such as The Brewery, a Mexican place, an Italian, etc. (I think Langdon, the owner is doing some switching so it may be BBQ or something now).
Lexington doesn't provide for the famer's like Higginsville, Richmond, or Carrollton does. No Feldman's or Orscheln farm stores or tractor dealers. There is an MFA elevator. There used to be a Ray-Carroll Co-Op with an Ampride convenience store but I think they're only a pay at the pump fuel station now.
Also, I do think that if you can get into the Wellington-Napoleon school district their is less chance of kids getting caught up into drinking, fighting, and such. But Lexington does seem to offer more artsy (theather, etc.) type of opportunity.
Welllington-Napoleon area does have a lot of German style farmhouses and did at one time have a strong German heritage. I'd say that its German heritage has really dwindled since the early 1970s. Most of the school students probably don't know much about it but I do think that the German heritage does have an influence on the attitudes, thinking, and atmosphere in Wellington & Napoleon.
Lexington has a lot of Italian, German, and old southern names and heritages.
Look at the churches; Italian (& maybe Irish) is reflected by Immaculate Conception Catholic. German's had Trinity United Church of Christ (German Evangelical Synod, then Evangelical & Reformed before becoming UCC) & Grace Lutheran. There is also Presbyterian, Southern Baptist, Methodist, African Methodist-Episcopal, Episcopal, Assemblies of God and I know some others I can't think of right now.
I'd say that Lafayette County has a less liberal outlook than the KC or St. Louis metro. It has a more progressive outlook than most of rural Missouri. It would probably be most like the Jeff/City Columbia area as far as politics go. Ike Skelton would best describe the politics of Lafayette County if you do reserach on him. They like Harry Truman kind of guys
