Ok, I will be the party popper, in the real world there is prejudice, no matter where you go and the assorted ding dongs that look at the world that way. I think you may need to look at the isolation of Montana, it is a big state, there is very little in the way of how shall I say much to do unless you are as I was weary of the hard driving traffic snarling existence. Your wife's age and ability to adapt should be factored in. Some yaho might say something but I doubt it is not anything you have not encountered before. What type of work are you in? That might help point you into an area. BTW I am just not a curry fan, much as I have tried.

Good luck and let us hear from you. I am a transplant from Oregon who visited for over 4 years total prior to my move.