How about 'sexiest' music video? (singer, album, female, dancing)

[Xander_Crews]

Originally Posted by i_love_autumn

Annie and Tom's dance to "A Soft Place To Fall" by Allison Morer.


The Horse Whisperer Romantic Dance Scene - YouTube

nope

[NightLifeBlues]

i_love_autumn

those guys' videos were a yes because your thread said "sexiest" not "seduction" or "romantic". Your "nope" is like a slap of rejection for a guy being a guy and honestly saying what a sexiest video is for him. I knew you are female by your video choice just like they are male by theirs. your nope felt cold, harsh and judgmental without explanation. Me being a guy got me angry not your fault but it did.

I'll post video(s) that tend toward romance. This is how I see it though just in case you want your thread to succeed.

Men and women bodies are different and response time sexually reflects that difference. A video with slow buildup etc is more like a woman's body needing time for her to be at the stage that a male's body achieves in seconds. Meaning he's hard in seconds and the woman's equivalent to a male hardness (her wetness or receptivity) takes time.

Videos reflecting "direct sexiness" appeals to men reflecting our bodies just like videos that show seduction (meaning have buildup time) reflect female anatomy. No sense making a guy feel bad because of his honesty.

If you want sexiest, that's subjective so there can't be nope only different. If you meant seduction or romantic then okay you have a point. But the thread SAID sexiest.

[NightLifeBlues]

Movie

The Lover - a kiss on the window



The Lover 1992
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0101316/synopsis

Marooned - Pink Floyd



L' amant (The Lover - 1992)

[NightLifeBlues]

The Lover (L'AMANT)


L'Amant Película
Music - Craig Armstrong & Elizabeth Fraser - This Love

[NightLifeBlues]

my version of sexiest landing between male directness & female buildup time.

El Tango de Roxanne - del film "Moulin Rouge" (full version)

[i_love_autumn]

Originally Posted by NightLifeBlues

i_love_autumn

those guys' videos were a yes because your thread said "sexiest" not "seduction" or "romantic". Your "nope" is like a slap of rejection for a guy being a guy and honestly saying what a sexiest video is for him. I knew you are female by your video choice just like they are male by theirs. your nope felt cold, harsh and judgmental without explanation. Me being a guy got me angry not your fault but it did.

I'll post video(s) that tend toward romance. This is how I see it though just in case you want your thread to succeed.

Men and women bodies are different and response time sexually reflects that difference. A video with slow buildup etc is more like a woman's body needing time for her to be at the stage that a male's body achieves in seconds. Meaning he's hard in seconds and the woman's equivalent to a male hardness (her wetness or receptivity) takes time.

Videos reflecting "direct sexiness" appeals to men reflecting our bodies just like videos that show seduction (meaning have buildup time) reflect female anatomy. No sense making a guy feel bad because of his honesty.

If you want sexiest, that's subjective so there can't be nope only different. If you meant seduction or romantic then okay you have a point. But the thread SAID sexiest.

Wow,didn't think there would be such a huge difference in interpretation of sexy,as opposed to vulgarity/wham-bam-thank-you-mam/rape!That is not sexy,and most certainly not making love!If that is the kind of lousy lovers most men are,I can certainly understand why women cheat!

Thankfully my late husband of 30 years was sexy in the way I prefer or we would have never had such a special and 'hot' 30 years!

[i_love_autumn]

Originally Posted by NightLifeBlues

The Lover (L'AMANT)


L'Amant Película
Music - Craig Armstrong & Elizabeth Fraser - This Love

I can't take these because she looks like she's not even a tween!

[NightLifeBlues]

Originally Posted by i_love_autumn

I can't take these because she looks like she's not even a tween!

Are we surprised? Suspending culture would be asking wayyy too much of you. An allegory of innocence recognizing a life's passion is way too much for you. We get it. An autobiographical movie of one's life is too much for you because of what somebody looks like. Said plenty seeing rape where it doesn't exist. No thanks.

[i_love_autumn]

Originally Posted by NightLifeBlues

Are we surprised? Suspending culture would be asking wayyy too much of you. An allegory of innocence recognizing a life's passion is way too much for you. We get it. An autobiographical movie of one's life is too much for you because of what somebody looks like. Said plenty seeing rape where it doesn't exist. No thanks.

And I suppose pedophilia is not pedophilia just because it's ok in another culture,NO THANKS!

[NightLifeBlues]

Originally Posted by i_love_autumn

And I suppose pedophilia is not pedophilia just because it's ok in another culture,NO THANKS!

A good opportunity not to judge another's life is asking way too much of you. Rape, pedos etc. We get your picture. Age of consent in 1930s world wide.. rightttt... no young great-grandmothers in anyone's life. Intolerance is ugly. Ignorance is too. With such limitations, most of human history would be off-limits. Double No Thanks.

I'm through. Rattle on. Peace.