Moving to SC how is resdential building are there any jobs in this field also we have heard northerner aren't wanted (Columbia: sales, home builder)

[waccamatt]

If you move to one of the cities, being a northerner is a non-issue. It might be an issue in a smaller town because people there tend to be more suspicious of "outsiders". I'm a northerner and have never had a problem in Columbia.

[ranger17]

i think if one is polite and respectful to others, the same will be returned. Even up here, we can get plenty of tourists/transplants from neighboring states that when they pack some attitude in their luggage, no wonder the welcome mat is quickly pulled back. I don't think it's so much a north/south thing; in fact I can have better relationships with some of my vendors from the south then from other parts of the US ( ie upper east coast areas ). So like we were taught as kids--be nice to others......

and on a ligher note, if anyone from the south is tired of us northerners wanting to move down there--I have a real nice home up here if you want to get away.... I'll even include the snow blower w/ purchase, though i'm sure you'll "never" need it. After all, it couldn't dump 100" of snow again, could it????

[pvjd]

An unfortunate hypocrasy that you might encounter is that people may be ultra touchy and defensive with you if you differ or deviate from the southern lifestyle, saying that you are judging them, trying to impose northern culture, etc., when it is what it is--a difference. I am from the south but have lived elsewhere, and I have family elsewhere. The average northerner is not going to try to impose anything on the south, but at times it can be perceived as such depending on the attitude of said southerner. Most people are not like this and will treat you with respect as long as you do the same, but there is a small minority that will play the victim role (i.e. blaming problems of the south on northerners, and arguing just to hear themselves talk). Not trying to make the south seem unwelcome, on the contrary it is very open and welcome, as well a wonderful place to live and raise a family. Just thought you should be aware in case you encounter any elitism, and you should remember that it is not the norm, as 98% of people you encounter and experiences you have will be positive. Good luck.

[guestposter24]

Originally Posted by pvjd

An unfortunate hypocrasy that you might encounter is that people may be ultra touchy and defensive with you if you differ or deviate from the southern lifestyle, saying that you are judging them, trying to impose northern culture, etc., when it is what it is--a difference. I am from the south but have lived elsewhere, and I have family elsewhere. The average northerner is not going to try to impose anything on the south, but at times it can be perceived as such depending on the attitude of said southerner. Most people are not like this and will treat you with respect as long as you do the same, but there is a small minority that will play the victim role (i.e. blaming problems of the south on northerners, and arguing just to hear themselves talk). Not trying to make the south seem unwelcome, on the contrary it is very open and welcome, as well a wonderful place to live and raise a family. Just thought you should be aware in case you encounter any elitism, and you should remember that it is not the norm, as 98% of people you encounter and experiences you have will be positive. Good luck.

They may not impose Northern culture on everything on purpose but still effect the South whether they mean to or not.

[pvjd]

What, like not liking sweet tea, preferring New York style pizza, and not understanding why people use the confederate flag as a divisive tool to keep themselves separate from the rest of the country? Same can be said for anybody moving to SC, regardless of where they are from. The big debate seems to always be north vs. south, but there are lots of native southerners (such as myself), mid-west and westerners who relocate there, as well as people from other countries. I know you mean no harm by your comment, and what I say doesn't apply to you, I just get offended when I hear so many snide and bitter remarks about non-southerners. It makes them easy targets, but I don't think they are the root of most true problems (I say true problems because I want to eliminate rhetoric and Civil War era bitterness from the issue). If you are American, you have the right to live anywhere in America that you choose. I realize parts of SC have issues with too much development, and I sympathize greatly on this matter. Every time I see a dead dear by the side of the road due to commercial land development, or people unable to afford decent housing due to gentrification, it makes me very sad. I don't blame the people buying property, but rather the property builders. Sorry if I have gone off on a tangent, I really mean no disrespect to anybody, or to their opinions.

[guestposter24]

Originally Posted by pvjd

What, like not liking sweet tea, preferring New York style pizza, and not understanding why people use the confederate flag as a divisive tool to keep themselves separate from the rest of the country? Same can be said for anybody moving to SC, regardless of where they are from. The big debate seems to always be north vs. south, but there are lots of native southerners (such as myself), mid-west and westerners who relocate there, as well as people from other countries. I know you mean no harm by your comment, and what I say doesn't apply to you, I just get offended when I hear so many snide and bitter remarks about non-southerners. It makes them easy targets, but I don't think they are the root of most true problems (I say true problems because I want to eliminate rhetoric and Civil War era bitterness from the issue). If you are American, you have the right to live anywhere in America that you choose. I realize parts of SC have issues with too much development, and I sympathize greatly on this matter. Every time I see a dead dear by the side of the road due to commercial land development, or people unable to afford decent housing due to gentrification, it makes me very sad. I don't blame the people buying property, but rather the property builders. Sorry if I have gone off on a tangent, I really mean no disrespect to anybody, or to their opinions.

I do not have a personal distaste for non-Southerners, especially since my mother is one.

The problem is that the South no longer becomes unique. It'll become like everywhere else in the United States.

[appalachiangirl]

I think areas such as downtown Charleston,SC and Savannah,GA (hopefully) will always be unique with the history and architecture. I realize there is much growth (visit SC in the summers and may move down there),but I don't think most people who move there want to change the area. And from a historical standpoint (and a native of a once divided state) I can appreciate both viewpoints of,say the Civil War (or War Between the States).

[Streamline]

It is really helpful to read these posts since my family is considering a move to SC as well. We will be taking my daughter 'college shopping' this summer and two on her list are College of Charleston and Coastal Carolina. She is like her parents in that we want to live in a warmer, year-round climate (we are from PA). I will continue to check back for more info and hopefully the visits will help us. My husband is getting close to retirement but should be able to work his business from home with trips back to PA, and since I have a home business, I can work anywhere (I am not close to retirement age but not anxious to stop working anyway since I love my work and most times it is more fun than work.. still has me passionate anyway!). Our daughter searching for college is the youngest of four, so a good time for us to make this move. Thanks for all of the input here!

[appalachiangirl]

It seems as if people from PA,WV,OH,NJ and MI are moving away in droves due to mainly economic reasons! I originally thought I wanted to live in Florida,but have heard so many negative things about living there that I think NC or SC would be better (didn't look into Ga because I don't want to be near the traffic hassle of Atlanta! but it is a pretty state!)

[guestposter24]

Originally Posted by Streamline

It is really helpful to read these posts since my family is considering a move to SC as well. We will be taking my daughter 'college shopping' this summer and two on her list are College of Charleston and Coastal Carolina. She is like her parents in that we want to live in a warmer, year-round climate (we are from PA). I will continue to check back for more info and hopefully the visits will help us. My husband is getting close to retirement but should be able to work his business from home with trips back to PA, and since I have a home business, I can work anywhere (I am not close to retirement age but not anxious to stop working anyway since I love my work and most times it is more fun than work.. still has me passionate anyway!). Our daughter searching for college is the youngest of four, so a good time for us to make this move. Thanks for all of the input here!

I have heard bad things about College of Charleston. It's a big party school apparently. At least that's the stereotype.