I grew up in Exeter and I currently live just over the border in Kingston. For 10 years I lived elsewhere in CA, FL and PA. It seems that everyone comes back here! At a recent reunion I found out that many of my former Exeter classmates left and are now back "home". It's a wonderful place to raise a family. We are actually moving away (we want to be back in a warmer climate) but this is a great area to live in. You are close a hour from Boston (my husband commutes to Boston) and Portland, ME. 20 minutes from the beaches, an hour from the mountains, and Kingston has a wonderful state park on the lake where you can swim and picnic. Crime is almost non-existent.
The Exeter area schools (SAU 16) are great. The Kingston/Newton (SAU 17) are a little less great but they are trying! My 6-y-o has a slight learning disability and I can't say enough about how great Bakie Elementary has been for him. He is now keeping up with his class and even excelling in areas. I've been very happy, and I haven't heard any complaints about the schools from any of my friends who are parents. The new high school is very nice. Kingston is a great little community. (The police chief is a great guy who really watches out for the citizens.) The only thing about Kingston is that they don't allow much change in the town. This could be good or bad depending on what you're looking for. The "downtown" area of Kingston is beautiful. I can see why they don't want it to change much.
One thing to check before you move here is the property taxes. They could be considered high, depending on where you hail from. We have a 3BR ranch on 0.7 acres, and we pay about $5000 a year in property taxes. (But there is no sales tax or income tax in NH.) From what I understand, Exeter is higher - but you get a lot of for the money.
Good luck to anyone moving here. It's a great place to live! Oh, did anyone mention The Greenbean in Exeter? Great soups and sandwiches.
