Off Topic Chat Room.... (vs, medical, schedule)

[countrylv22]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR POST,

and for keeping us in your thoughts & prayers!

I truly appreciate it!And I am sure that JACK appreciates it as well!

I will keep you posted!

PRAYERS ARE A WONDERFUL THING!

Have a GREAT day NICOLE!

Countrylv22

Originally Posted by nicolem

Country,

Both you and your friend Jack and his family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please let us know what happens.
Nicolem

[countrylv22]

THANK YOU SO MUCH "BOO"


I appreciate your post & concern!

Have a GREAT day "BOO"

Best to you as well!!

Countrylv22

Originally Posted by BooShutterBugg

I second this! Country, Good thoughts for your friend. Best to you!

[countrylv22]

THANK YOU SO MUCH "DARE TO DREAM" FOR

YOUR NICE POST, AND FOR KEEPING JACK IN YOUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS!

I truly appreciate it!!

My best to you!

Take care,

Countrylv22

Originally Posted by DareToDream

Country - Your friend and his family will be in my thoughts and prayers that all turns out well.

HELLO SUZETTE!

Thank you so much for your nice post !

I appreciate your good thoughts as well!

Take good care of yourself!

Countrylv22

[countrylv22]

I AM SO SO SORRY ABOUT THE ACCIDENT!


What a HORRIBLE night!

I am glad that you are OK now, and that nothing happened to your girls!

And by the way, it is normal & OK to be in control of it all, and later fall apart,

you are HUMAN and that is to be expected!

And it is also OK to have a panic attack after such an experience of emotions,

so please do not knock yourself down.

And you have GREAT MATERNAL INSTINCTS!!KUDOS TO YOU!!

Please try to RELAX today

I am sending GOOD, HAPPY & FUN thoughts your way!

Oh, I really love California traffic & drivers

Suzette, chin up, SMILE, RELAX, CHILL, have one of those YUMMY

cupcakes of yoursand do NOT think about it!Just HUG your girls!

Take gentle care Suzette!

(((HUGS)))

Have a wonderful day!

Countrylv22

Originally Posted by Suzet2262

Country I will send good thoughts to Jack and his family!!! I hope everything works out ok for him.

My daughters and I were in a car accident today. It happend about 2 hours ago. Some a** pulled out in front of us at an intersection. We we driving down the street and this a** and his friend who was in another truck pulled out in front of us. His friend pulled out to try to cut us off and make a turn in front of us, I slammed on the breaks, as I was going 50, so we avoided hitting him, but his jerk friend followed and pulled out in front of us too, he is the one that I slammed into. Omg!!! I cant imagine how someone can think they can beat the traffic when they are going to make a turn. I wasnt the only one on the road, it was full of cars, the person in the lane next to me had to swerve to avoid getting hit. My daughters were all shook up and scared. I was going to kill the guy...no one does anything to hurt my kids. That is where my mothering comes out in a mean way...I think that is one of my worst traits. I will not let someone get away with hurting my girls. I just see red. Otherwise I am perfect...lol. So anyway, I called my hubby to let him know what had happend, a mother and son pulled over to help us. They were both nurses, and very sweet.

We got all the guys info, thank god he had full coverage. The police came and made sure everything was ok. We were in my daughters car. Her new one that my hubby and I bought for her. Luckily I was driving. So needless to say after all the excitement, I had a huge panic attack. I still feel like crap. I am great in the emergency, and then I fall apart after I know everyone is ok. I am just happy my girls are ok, well as ok as they can be. So that is how my night is going

[Valerie C]

Oh my goodness Suzet--I'm glad that you all are OK (even the jerk that was the cause) and a panic attack is certainly justified, and probably completely normal from the adrenaline rush!! I know that when something like that happens to me (a real scare) my legs are wobbly, and I am very shaky for hours afterward. And that would be for a near miss--I can't even imagine being in an accident with my kids in the car--the alternating feelings of "Thank God we all are safe" and "I'm gonna kill the l&%$#@^%$" must be overwhelming!

[Valerie C]

Country, I'm so sorry that I didn't see this note that you posted a couple of days ago, and am just seeing it now. Please know that I will keep Jack and his family in my thoughts and prayers. Cancer of any sort if so tough not only on the patient, but also on the family, and it's so important to think positively and keep spirits up. I hope you'll tell your friend that so many people here on City Data are thinking of him and sending positive thoughts his way. Thank you for letting us all know about him!!

Originally Posted by countrylv22

I have a dear friend, my friends FATHER, has to go to the hospital today for

some tests, PROSTATE, there is prostate cancer in the family. His name is

JACK. He is obviously loved by his family. And too young to have to go

through this .

Could we ALL send HAPPY, GOOD THOUGHTS & LOTS, LOTS OF PRAYERS

FOR JACK!! PLEASE!!

I PRAY that the tests come back NEGATIVE, and even if they do find

something, that it can be fixed, and he can go on living without too much

pain. And that JACK continues to be loved & cared for by his family!

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE, for listening & for ALL of your PRAYERS!

Take gentle care everyone,

You guys are the BEST!!!

Peace,

Countrylv22

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[Suzet2262]

Thank you so much nicole, bry, wanna, boo, dare, country and val, for your nice words. I have so many feelings going around about the accident in my head. For us panicy people we tend to think about bad stuff over and over. One thing that has me so mad, is that while I was checking on my girls to make sure they were ok, the stupid a** drivers where actually honking for me to move, and speeding around us. I am so livid by that fact, the more I think about that one thing, the madder I get. What in the hell is wrong with the people in this world today. My god, no one even cared enough if we were hurt or whatever. Finally the nurses pulled up and helped us. This town and all its snotty people make me sick. Ugh.

My girls are doing ok today, still shaky and have that weird feeling that you get after an accident. I noticed today when I was driving, Heather and I were both kind of scared to be in the car. I was nervous driving. This isnt good for me since driving is a huge trigger for my panic attacks..I am going to try really hard to not let it get to me and stop me from driving again. My heart has been racing pretty much all day. I am sure it will pass.

Is there any place left where people truly care about one another and not just what is going on in their lives? I must have been born in the wrong era or something, as I am one of those people that do care. I would help anyone at anytime if I am able to. I have always been that way, thank god my girls are the same as I am. I really care about people. I know that sounds corny or stupid, but that is how I am. Which also sets me up to get my heart broken a lot. Wow, sorry for rambling on...I guess I am more upset than I thought.

Anyway, thank you all so much for your concern and kind words, it means a lot to me.

[nicolem]

Originally Posted by Suzet2262

Thank you so much nicole, bry, wanna, boo, dare, country and val, for your nice words. I have so many feelings going around about the accident in my head. For us panicy people we tend to think about bad stuff over and over. One thing that has me so mad, is that while I was checking on my girls to make sure they were ok, the stupid a** drivers where actually honking for me to move, and speeding around us. I am so livid by that fact, the more I think about that one thing, the madder I get. What in the hell is wrong with the people in this world today. My god, no one even cared enough if we were hurt or whatever. Finally the nurses pulled up and helped us. This town and all its snotty people make me sick. Ugh.

My girls are doing ok today, still shaky and have that weird feeling that you get after an accident. I noticed today when I was driving, Heather and I were both kind of scared to be in the car. I was nervous driving. This isnt good for me since driving is a huge trigger for my panic attacks..I am going to try really hard to not let it get to me and stop me from driving again. My heart has been racing pretty much all day. I am sure it will pass.

Is there any place left where people truly care about one another and not just what is going on in their lives? I must have been born in the wrong era or something, as I am one of those people that do care. I would help anyone at anytime if I am able to. I have always been that way, thank god my girls are the same as I am. I really care about people. I know that sounds corny or stupid, but that is how I am. Which also sets me up to get my heart broken a lot. Wow, sorry for rambling on...I guess I am more upset than I thought.

Anyway, thank you all so much for your concern and kind words, it means a lot to me.

I don't think that you are "corny" at all for caring about people- I am the same way. Unfortunately I think the world as a whole has shifted to people being so wrapped up in their lives that many-not all-refuse to stop to help a stranded mototist or other person in distress. I know one of the things that gets me down about the world as a whole is a lack of concern and the "me me me" attitude of people. It is everywhere-it is not specific to California. I don't know where, but on the news the other day, they showed a security camera catch a woman getting mugged after church and people driving by-doing nothing to stop. I could never live with myself if I did such a thing.

However, there are very good people in the world too. A while back, a man on a way to a sporting event with his kids on 93 in NH pulled over to an accident. He got a woman out of her car right before it caught on fire. You do hear stories of people and good samaritans everyday. I am thankful that you and your daughters had your helpers in the nurses.

As I have posted before, I am very happy to have moved out of Concord. It just wasn't for me. However, back in 2002, I was driving and in a very weird accident. I was going LESS than 10 miles an hour on Ft Eddy when it was lightly snowing-it had just started and there was nothing on the ground. The weird thng was all I remember is driving and the next thing I was spun out. I did not hit another car, I was fine, the only "damage" to my car was the under part because as I spun I ran over a broken sign and the metal was scratching my car. It was the weirdest thing I don't remember spinning-just the ever increasing snow and it felt like I was up in the clouds for a moment. The police officer even told me he knows I was going slow and did not totally know what happened. Well this was after work-around 6 or so- I had just left the health club. I called the police and waited. Well AT LEAST 20 people stopped to check on me. People offered me to sit in their car, use their cell phone, one guy offered me his snickers bar. I was truly surprised at all the people who stopped. To this day I still remember it as clear as anything. To get even "weirder" some guy who looked like my deceased father in law stopped by, it seemed like he came out of no where and he said "you will be ok child" and then disappeared. That still sends chills up my spine.

Suzet, there are good people and bad people everywhere. I am glad that at least someone did stop for you-think how worse it would have been if no one did. I think the best thing you can do is try to align yourself with good positive people and be the best person that you can be. Think of all the wonderful people that you have met on citydata-that should give you some hope

You and your girls relax and remember, as stated earlier, it is common to be shaken up after a car accident. In the accidents I have been in, it always takes me a while to get over that feeling.

Nicolem

[DareToDream]

Originally Posted by Suzet2262

Thank you so much nicole, bry, wanna, boo, dare, country and val, for your nice words. I have so many feelings going around about the accident in my head. For us panicy people we tend to think about bad stuff over and over. One thing that has me so mad, is that while I was checking on my girls to make sure they were ok, the stupid a** drivers where actually honking for me to move, and speeding around us. I am so livid by that fact, the more I think about that one thing, the madder I get. What in the hell is wrong with the people in this world today. My god, no one even cared enough if we were hurt or whatever. Finally the nurses pulled up and helped us. This town and all its snotty people make me sick. Ugh.

My girls are doing ok today, still shaky and have that weird feeling that you get after an accident. I noticed today when I was driving, Heather and I were both kind of scared to be in the car. I was nervous driving. This isnt good for me since driving is a huge trigger for my panic attacks..I am going to try really hard to not let it get to me and stop me from driving again. My heart has been racing pretty much all day. I am sure it will pass.

Is there any place left where people truly care about one another and not just what is going on in their lives? I must have been born in the wrong era or something, as I am one of those people that do care. I would help anyone at anytime if I am able to. I have always been that way, thank god my girls are the same as I am. I really care about people. I know that sounds corny or stupid, but that is how I am. Which also sets me up to get my heart broken a lot. Wow, sorry for rambling on...I guess I am more upset than I thought.

Anyway, thank you all so much for your concern and kind words, it means a lot to me.

Good morning Suzet - What you are going through is normal, try to remember that. The best thing you could have done was to get back in a car and drive! Do it every day so you don't start avoiding it, which will start a downward spiral to never driving - sure you'll be nervous, antsy, but you will regain your confidence.

I can't answer your question about the people who just kept going past you. Unfortunately there are plenty of them out there. There are also plenty like the two who helped you, though, so try to remember that - they may seem few and far between, but they are out there!

Get your feelings about the accident out so you don't sit and stew about them - come here and vent, write them down in a notebook, whatever, but get them out....We're here and will "listen" to you, I promise