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Old 11-22-2010, 04:19 PM
 
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N.J. Assembly, Senate pass 'Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights' in wake of Tyler Clementi's death | NJ.com

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The bill (A3466) would require training for most public school employees on how to spot bullying and mandate that all districts form “school safety teams” to review complaints.

Superintendents would have to report incidents of bullying to the state Board of Education, which would grade schools and districts on their efforts to combat it.
I am watching on TV and they had a grown man who is 48 years old crying on TV and saying he has been in therapy since he was 10 because of bullying

I think this bill is completely unnecessary and a big waste of money.
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Old 11-22-2010, 06:02 PM
 
Location: NJ
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I don't know about the bill, but I do remember giving that guy some pretty mean wedgies about 40 years ago.
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Old 11-22-2010, 06:27 PM
 
Location: NJ & NV
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I haven't read the details of it, but on the basis of principle I'm against any reactionary laws enacted in response to one incident. Usually they are bad for many.
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Old 11-22-2010, 07:01 PM
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Maybe if we had some solid laws against bullies perhaps their would not have been a Columbine. Bullied kids seem to get even in the worst ways.
Of course if your kid is a bully I guess those laws seem a waste of money.
On the other hand if you kid is being bullied just tell them to man up like you did.
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Old 11-22-2010, 07:44 PM
 
Location: The Communist State of NJ
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No laws needed. Teach your kid how to stand up for himself/herself. Problem solved.
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Old 11-22-2010, 08:48 PM
 
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No laws needed. Teach your kid how to stand up for himself/herself. Problem solved.
Right!

Add.... teach your kid to respect others.
Bring it back home!
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Old 11-22-2010, 09:04 PM
 
Location: The Ranch in Olam Haba
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I think this bill is completely unnecessary and a big waste of money.
The reason it is necessary is because schools don't follow their Zero Tolerance rules or their Codes of Conduct.

I'm just waiting for the day schools have as many cameras watching people as prisons do.


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Teach your kid how to stand up for himself/herself.
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Add.... teach your kid to respect others.
Too bad too many parents think this is the job of the schools.
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Old 11-23-2010, 03:58 AM
 
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Default my area in jersey

the schools in my area do a horrible job with this!
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Old 11-23-2010, 04:05 AM
 
Location: Raleigh NC
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[quote=NeilVA;16754166]The reason it is necessary is because schools don't follow their Zero Tolerance rules or their Codes of Conduct.

I'm just waiting for the day schools have as many cameras watching people as prisons do.


It's on its way...I predict within 5 years there will be cameras in every classroom.
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Old 11-23-2010, 05:43 AM
 
Location: Savannah GA/Lk Hopatcong NJ
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I'm on the fence, not sure. There have always been and always will be bullies but I think the gadget age of cell phones, you tube etc has brought it to a different level.

In this particular case I think this individual had many issues and the incident may of been the proverbial straw that broke the Camel's back, hence the suicide.....but that said I don't comprehend suicide, I can't think of anything happening in my life where suicide would be better than life...
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