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Old 01-10-2018, 07:00 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I'm Indian and I don't live far from you (Carteret.) Yeah, it's a thing. Don't mind it. If it gets annoying, you can ask them politely if you wish about it, like "I was wondering if you had a question for me or something?". Or just tell em to $%@ off lol. They won't do it again.
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Old 01-10-2018, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Yes for decades. Immigrants are snubbing there nose at our way of life and look what happened on 9/11 when we ignored it.

I saw your Memorial photo in the Highlands so I applaud you for posting it.

A good neighbor would walk over and offer help without being asked. It's called common courtesy, being neighborly, showing respect. All things that are taught growing up but apparently they're not since the grandfather started the sit in.
Well, that was just weird to all line up and watch. But maybe they had no idea what you were doing, either. They also may have picked up somehow how you feel about them.

Glad you liked the photo, but you should know that I am a 9/11 WTC survivor who has written and spoken about the need to not let our response be to turn people who are different from us into "Thems". Because that's exactly what the terrorists did. My fellow survivors, and my dead coworkers, are and were immigrants and Americans, Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus, atheists...gay, straight...you get the idea.
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Old 01-10-2018, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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Call F Troop???
As long as they all relax in town.
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Old 01-10-2018, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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Do you say hello to them?

Ni hao (sort of pronounced Nee How).

People from some other cultures do stare, you know that, right? It's not considered rude, and they don't automatically know that it's rude when they move here from places where it isn't rude. They don't stand in line in China, either, and if you are in their way on the sidewalk and they want to get by, they will just shove you out of the way.

I see them doing that on the subways and trains in the city--shoving past people, not waiting their turn, and people get angry, but the Chinese don't know you are supposed to do something different here.

It's not rude. It's just the way it is.
Yes, they do. Someone started a thread about this in the Minnesota Forum a few months ago. They said the Somalians were always staring at them.

Getting to know you...
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Old 01-11-2018, 05:49 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Well, that was just weird to all line up and watch. But maybe they had no idea what you were doing, either. They also may have picked up somehow how you feel about them.

Glad you liked the photo, but you should know that I am a 9/11 WTC survivor who has written and spoken about the need to not let our response be to turn people who are different from us into "Thems". Because that's exactly what the terrorists did. My fellow survivors, and my dead coworkers, are and were immigrants and Americans, Christians, Jews, Muslims, Hindus, atheists...gay, straight...you get the idea.
I admire your courage.

I am not a survivor but know people who are and a NYC Fireman and a NJ State Trooper who was called in that day.

I agree we can't let them divide us at the same time we can't let them disrespect our values and culture.
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Old 01-11-2018, 07:49 AM
 
Location: NJ
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we can't let them disrespect our values and culture.
i have my own sets of values and culture as i am an individual and not obligated to any group of people. i dont know how someone can disrespect my values and culture in a meaningful way.
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Old 01-11-2018, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Ridgewood
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In good ole eastern Europe/Russia you get punched in the face without a warning for staring.... jk it's not like that anymore, hehe
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Old 01-11-2018, 11:56 AM
 
Location: California
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I hear you.

Imagine when they are your doctor?

Why are these people here bringing the way of life they are trying to escape?

Finally an investigation into all the 7-11's run by Indians.
Immigration agents descend on dozens of 7-Eleven stores

The OP is from Iselin NJ and that town is a tourist destination known as Little India.
Oak Tree Road - Little India in Edison and Iselin
Based on my experience with Kaiser who hires a lot of foreigners, many are very hostile to American patients and don't communicate well with them. Dangerous and very sad in the medical community.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:13 PM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic
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Based on my experience with Kaiser who hires a lot of foreigners, many are very hostile to American patients and don't communicate well with them. Dangerous and very sad in the medical community.
My mother's Indian doctor was top notch. He spoke English as though it was his native language--he was probably bilingual since birth--was extremely intelligent, and had a sense of humor. It doesn't get any better than that.
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Old 01-11-2018, 02:25 PM
 
Location: NJ
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just be like this guy:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfdTUGMMi_c
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