I'm a 21 year old male who recently graduated from college, and will be coming from Columbus, OH. I just received an offer to work for a company in Englewood Cliffs, NJ, and was hoping to get some advice on possible NJ locations.
Ideally, I'd like to live in one of the NYC boroughs, but this might be impractical either due to commute time coming from the outer boroughs or due to the exorbitant cost of living in Manhattan. I'd be willing to room with someone in a shoebox there, but at the same time, I don't know how much money I could actually save living there anyways. I'm expecting to receive somewhere in the neighborhood of 45-50k, though I'm still awaiting details on the offer.
Which brings me to this forum.. ideal criteria as far as location..
Easily commutable to Englewood Cliffs NJ via public transit (hour max), I do not want to bring my car or pay for insurance (though I could just keep my Ohio registration ...

).. but based off of just driving around in CT during an internship I had there (particularly on I-95 or Merritt in the southwestern area), I don't think I'd want to put up with the hassle of driving in crazy-assed traffic. At the same time, I hear NJ doesn't have as good public transit coverage as NYC, which is a big source of appeal for me (being able to conveniently get everywhere without having to drive).
Easily commutable to NYC (1/2 hour or less commute).. I'm sure I could live more affordably if I lived further out, but my main reason for considering this offer would be proximity to NYC.. and I'm going to assume that public transit coverage is going to be spottier the further out I go.
Lively area, preferably w/ many people around my age (heard Hoboken would fit this criteria).. at the same time, I still want to move somewhere culturally unique.. i.e. don't want to move somewhere that's going to have a cookie-cutter, suburban-esque vibe to it.. I really don't want to relocate just to feel like I'm in Columbus again.
Apartment budget - w/ or w/o roommates is fine, prefer under $1000-1200.. don't think this should be a problem in comparison to living in NYC.
Any areas that fit my criteria or would I be better off trying to tough it out in the city?