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Old 06-23-2008, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Jersey City
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Looks like someone replaced an antique furniture addiction with a different kind of addiction! Wrong type of wood! Go back to shopping for chairs!!!
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Old 06-23-2008, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Edison NJ
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From personal experience, cheating is not always a deal breaker to a relationship. I'm not condoning it but just saying not everything is always black and white. Dont assume you know what goes on in other peoples lives (or bedrooms) you might be very shocked to hear the truth.

As for airing it out on a public forum that has NOTHING to do with relationships and such, well, if the story is true, then I think both women need help. The one doing the sheating and the one sharing the story witht he rest of the world.
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Old 06-23-2008, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Here but I spend time There.
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From personal experience, cheating is punishable by death, it's the ultimate betrayal and IMO relationship over, right on the spot, there are no do overs, no second chances, no let's try to "fix" what's wrong. It's like trying to fix a broken tea cup, no matter how much glue you put on it, the cracks are always there.
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Old 06-23-2008, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Stewartsville, NJ
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From personal experience, cheating is punishable by death, it's the ultimate betrayal and IMO relationship over, right on the spot, there are no do overs, no second chances, no let's try to "fix" what's wrong. It's like trying to fix a broken tea cup, no matter how much glue you put on it, the cracks are always there.
Exactly! Being unhappy is a reason to leave not a reason to cheat! And I'm with you alex... no second chances! If they're a cheater, they'll always be a cheater!
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:35 PM
 
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Are you sure this is about "a friend" - sounds like you and her live very similiar lives... flirting on-line... talking about your porn collection... living in a huge mcmansion.... wealthy spouse...humm.
no we are not the same person, I dont live in a mansion!!!! I dont have a wealthy spouse Im the wealthy one, he married me for the money!!! And I do not cheat I am just kidding you.
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:37 PM
 
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1st time i read it.. i was thinking the OP is the cheating wife. i dont get why some people hide their scenarios as a "friend" in the situation to ask for advice. i think it is mental. but then again.. the "wife" is mental. and is it safe to say she had collected all STDs imaginable? is she not afraid of AIDS.. how about the husband? who i believe is an idiot. how ironic how he seems to be a rich successful man. and i honestly thought this only happens in movies
I find this way too funny, I would never cheat, anyone who knows my story I have sacrificed so much for love you have to know my history, no its not me!! I do have a friend would you like her husbands web site or her name???
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Stewartsville, NJ
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no we are not the same person, I dont live in a mansion!!!! I dont have a wealthy spouse Im the wealthy one, he married me for the money!!! And I do not cheat I am just kidding you.
Well the fact that you are still around to answer our posts tells me that you're not the same person because if it was you... hubby would have committed you into Greystone by now : )
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:41 PM
 
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Sounds more like Part 2 to come vs. "The End". The husband sounds like a great guy... he deserves better than her and "she" should appreciate him rather than coming online in a public forum to trash him. Sounds like the "wife" was looking for more of a dramatic response or perhaps a reason for him to divorce her so that she could try and take 1/2, if not all of everything he's worked so hard for...just my opinion.
actually I really was more friends with her, and until this all happened I have found out he is a really nice guy!!!!
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:46 PM
 
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I must say that by the highlighted portion above, it makes you sound like you're emotionally invested in this relationship. It conveys a message of placing blame on the victim of such betrayal rather than accosing*sp and admonishing the wife. At this point in time, I'm sure the husband is confused and needs to find his way in order to make an educated decision as to the future of his marriage, if he's first reaction is to trying to get her psychiatric help perhaps you should be a bit more sympathetic and offer any support and advice.
I really think thats a good point however she is mad at me, she is mad that I confirmed what other and he already new. She feels I betrayed her, he called me and I basically did not lie for her.
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Old 06-23-2008, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Here but I spend time There.
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To hell w/ the world, to hell w/ NJ women ...first there's death & taxes and gas prices and oil prices and heating oils and to finish it up all, cheating wives! that's it! I'm leaving NJ LOL Hasta La Pasta amigos, arrivederci, ciao, sayonara, adieu, c'est la vie. To the Moon Alice!
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