what a crazy morning!!!!! (Deal: buy, living, dangerous) - City-Data Forum

stevemorse · 06-20-2008, 01:43 PM

Let me just say this is not a NJ post but its a good one!!!! I have a friend, who has everything a women could want. She has a HUGE 6000 sq ft home, does not work, has everything money could buy and a great husband who I know, and LIKE as a friend but she is a compulisve cheater. OK this is not made up, she is cheating on him left and right, with anyone who will basically pay attension to her. Its been at least 15 men in parkway lots, parks you get the idea.

I have repeated told her, this is out of control!!! You need to make your marriage work!!! This is dangerous, this crazy but she kept going. Well this morning someone emailer her husband (not exactly an email) he is a big builder and into realestate so he has a private web site and you can post comments. SO someone said to him your wifes cheating, get a private investigator and get the tramp. Well she call me this morning and said she think she knows who it is, one of the many men that she messed out with!!! So she lied to husband and now he wants to go to police and get the ip address and confront they guy. SO basically she had to come clean.

Well he called me after the fact and I said, your cant go after someone who is basically telling the truth , in otherwords get your wife to come clean. What that person wrote was the truth!! He had his suspicions but the bag was already opened!!!!

What a mess!!!!! She called me and he keeps calling and basically I am glad I am going away this weekend!!! Its crazy, he knows now but probably like most people nothing changes. I am basically out of it now but what a crazy morning!!!

njkate · 06-20-2008, 01:47 PM

Oh Lordy Marilyn don't get your self sucked into the middle of that mess

stevemorse · 06-20-2008, 02:28 PM

yes its crazy, he really has spilled his guts out on how living with her has been. I basically told him to take her to a good shrink!! I mean its crazy. Bottom line, it appeared that she had it all, but when you get into their lives, I rather be poor and homeless!! He just called me, and I told him she needs help!!! He said this is the first time she in 47 years has come clean because she is a compulsive liar!!

Ohh GOd, what a mess. Lets just say she was pretty stupid!! It was not one guy but about 15 in three months, what she taught she could get away with this. This guy her husband is a BIG DEAL in Bergen County!!!!!! Lots of people know him. SHe is crazy

I am not in the middle, the person who messaged him started it, and I guess this blew the lid open!!!!!!!!!!!

AJGIANTS · 06-20-2008, 02:34 PM

first time IN 47 years?, 47 years? 47 years?

How hot can she be?

stevemorse · 06-20-2008, 02:50 PM

well she 47 years old, so actually it should have been 20!! She is not that hot!!! I did nt say she was hot, but listen men that she found she found on craigslist, so I really dont think she was with the cream of the crop

Liz555 · 06-20-2008, 03:26 PM

SHNIKIES! A cautionary tale for sure....

NJ07035 · 06-20-2008, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by AJGIANTS

first time IN 47 years?, 47 years? 47 years?

How hot can she be?

I don't think "hot" is the determining factor here.

It's like going to the checkout at Shop Rite; the register may be taped together, but if there is no line, no wait and the light is on - waiting for you as the next customer - you'll take it...

todd72173 · 06-20-2008, 03:37 PM

Photos..we need photos!!!

Its always them women screwing around...

Busch Boy · 06-20-2008, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by stevemorse

Let me just say this is not a NJ post but its a good one!!!! I have a friend, who has everything a women could want. She has a HUGE 6000 sq ft home, does not work, has everything money could buy and a great husband who I know, and LIKE as a friend but she is a compulisve cheater. OK this is not made up, she is cheating on him left and right, with anyone who will basically pay attension to her. Its been at least 15 men in parkway lots, parks you get the idea.

I have repeated told her, this is out of control!!! You need to make your marriage work!!! This is dangerous, this crazy but she kept going. Well this morning someone emailer her husband (not exactly an email) he is a big builder and into realestate so he has a private web site and you can post comments. SO someone said to him your wifes cheating, get a private investigator and get the tramp. Well she call me this morning and said she think she knows who it is, one of the many men that she messed out with!!! So she lied to husband and now he wants to go to police and get the ip address and confront they guy. SO basically she had to come clean.

Well he called me after the fact and I said, your cant go after someone who is basically telling the truth , in otherwords get your wife to come clean. What that person wrote was the truth!! He had his suspicions but the bag was already opened!!!!

What a mess!!!!! She called me and he keeps calling and basically I am glad I am going away this weekend!!! Its crazy, he knows now but probably like most people nothing changes. I am basically out of it now but what a crazy morning!!!

No offense, but I think your friend is horrible.

I guess the old saying is true, you can't turn a ***** into a housewife, LMAO.

IMO, don't get involved. If her husband is as well-known as he is, the fur is going to fly.

And this is not a double standard, it's just as bad if a man does it.

shannybannany · 06-20-2008, 03:49 PM

This is right out of a Lifetime movie..."My Secret Life as a Sexaholic"!

Well, hopefully she will get some help. She is suffering from some mighty self-esteem issues if you ask me.

GL and don't answer your phone.

Shanny