Yeah I think Woodbridge or any of the other towns along the North Jersey Coast Line, depending on how long each of you guys want your commute to be. Check the travel time by train on
www.njtransit.com to New York Penn Station and the drive time on maps.google to Manchester from each town along the line that you want to consider. If you want a "suburban" experience, Woodbridge, Aberdeen/Matawan, and some others are good choices. Places like the Amboys and Red Bank are more urban in character if you prefer that. All of them have train stations and are near the Parkway.