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Old 10-14-2009, 10:03 AM
 
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If something doesn't feel right, chances are it's not. Call the police.
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Old 10-14-2009, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Forest Hills
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Does your husband suspect you of having an affair?
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:27 AM
 
Location: NJ
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maybe she is having an affair.
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:38 AM
 
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A friend had someone following her for over a week. Turned out one of her neighbors called DYFS because they didn't like the way she screamed at the kids one day.

Ive seen more than one undercover cop doing exactly what you are mentioning(even know 1-2). Does anyone have reason to rat you out about something illegal you are doing? You growing pot or something? Know anyone that might be involved in "something illegal" and they go to your house a lot (even for innocuous reasons)? They may not be looking for YOU specifically but maybe someone you know. (yes this happens in the burbs too)
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:43 AM
 
Location: 08361
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IT IS NOT UNEMPL...but if you see the car again call the cops
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:53 AM
 
Location: NJ
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im the original poster and wow you guys watch alot of tv.. ha ha.. im not into anything illigal,nor having an affair.. or treat my kids badly although they could use a beating..lol..anyway im going to make sure tomorrow a.m. if he's there i will be calling police..my husband thinks im crazy and paranoid. i know he followed me..thanks everyone..
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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If your husband is the one having you followed he may be trying to throw you off by telling you that you are paranoid. I am just kidding but seriously it does seem like this person is watching you.
It is not unemployment. I have never heard of them doing anything like this.
You are right to go to the cops if he returns to your street.
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Old 10-14-2009, 11:58 AM
 
Location: NJ
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my husband thinks im crazy and paranoid. i know he followed me..thanks everyone..
im not putting the moves on you, but if my wife told me she was being followed i wouldnt dismiss her and say she is crazy. maybe its because im paranoid also to a degree.
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Old 10-14-2009, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Savannah GA/Lk Hopatcong NJ
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IT IS NOT UNEMPL...but if you see the car again call the cops
When UI gets reports of fraud they very well do hire private investigators to follow someone same goes for disability...how else do you think they get proof????

Not saying that is the case here just because o/p is on UI but you get lots of people sticking their noses where they don't belong and making allegations on assumptions.Fraud reports have to be investigated. Just like child abuse complaints have to be investigated.
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Old 10-14-2009, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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When UI gets reports of fraud they very well do hire private investigators to follow someone same goes for disability...how else do you think they get proof????

Not saying that is the case here just because o/p is on UI but you get lots of people sticking their noses where they don't belong and making allegations on assumptions.Fraud reports have to be investigated. Just like child abuse complaints have to be investigated.
I have heard of them contacting places that have possibly employed those on unemployment but I have never heard of them sending a PI to sit outside someone's house and follow them around.
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