Hi- you might want to try "search This Forum" to search this thread. There are a ton of threads on this topic. this link might work (?)
http://www.city-data.com/forum/searc...rchid=20394565
Also.... you may want to specify how far of a commute is acceptable.
"Excellent" schools might be a Mountain Lakes or a Millburn or something like that.... but 400K will not get you much (if anything) there unfortunately. You may need to downgrade from "excellent" to "good". ;-)