Hello from a Hobbs resident of nearly 5 years. We are in our mid-forties, my husband works in a specialized professional capacity for one of the international gas companies, I stay at home and we have 3 children, ages 9, 6 and 3.
We moved here before the 'boom', or at the very beginning of it. We were able to buy a home 4 years ago as of Jan 2008, after living in an apartment for a few months, and on the 'good' North side before the prices became inflated - if we had to buy now I'm not so sure we'd be here because our income just wouldn't stretch enough. We plan to live here at least until our children are grown.
We're happy with this area of town - middle class families, a lot of older people but more and more families with young children moving in, shopping & services are close (Albertsons Grocery, Home Depot, Walmart, hospital, medical offices, several stores, it's really central to most everywhere except downtown) and there are a couple of parks nearby.
Our two eldest children attend Stone Elementary, an excellent school with very attentive and qualified teachers. All of our children attended or do attend Mother Goose Preschool a couple morning per week, and we're happy with them - it is 'fun' with some attention to academics, but certainly appropriate for that age we feel. Kindergarten (age 5 & 6) here is now full time and the children learn at a quick pace - they will be reading, writing and doing math by the end of the school year. (it's not just coloring and playing like when I was young).
The only crime we've ever experienced is to have our car broken into - it was parked in our driveway, unlocked and someone attempted to remove the stereo. Many cars in our neighborhood were hit that night. We don't see 'hoodlums' or gangs around. The kids we have met are nice and well mannered in general - though I feel they are allowed too much freedom to roam the neighborhood alone (probably because many parents feel comfortable and safe in this small town - I wouldn't feel that way regarding my children about any town). There were 6 or 7 murders here in 2006 and over 20 rapes.
We are used to living in oil towns, boom towns, small towns and the like, we grew up in them and we've worked in them. We are used to rough talking and acting transient workers and their families moving in or out as the jobs come and go, we are used to having to travel for basic shopping and medical care... still...
Restaurants here are not very good - mostly fast food and a few chain restaurants for the tourists; there is no good place to eat well prepared southern, southwestern or Mexican food as you might expect.
Shopping is okay, but for anything out of the norm we must travel to Lubbock or Odessa, Texas. We must also travel for medical care... specialized dental care, surgeries, specialists, etc. And because of the population boom many doctors here are TOO busy with long waits. Our children see Dr. Reddy at the Lea County Children's Clinic. We like and trust him, but it's a nightmare of a wait in a crowded waiting room and you must request a specific doctor or your children will be seen by whomever is available at the moment. Our youngest child was born here in Hobbs, but I used a midwife from Texas to deliver at home so I have no experience with OB's here.
Recreation around here is mostly family oriented and very limited. The city does do a fairly good job of providing special activities, such as swimming lessons during the summer, and I hope they continue to provide more. It's the local businesses that are lacking when it comes to recreation or things to do. There's bowling, a skating rink, an arcade at a pizza joint...and ??? Boy scouts, boys & girls club, the teen center...??? It's hard to think of anything. Our neighbors with older kids take them hunting and out riding 4-wheelers. The community calendar is often empty. Others who have mentioned nearby (within a days drive) vacation destinations are right on - there are many nice and interesting places to visit.
In general this is a very conservative town in both attitude and politics. Most people here have grown up in the area (or in nearby Texas) and have family around. Sometimes that leaves them with little interest in making new friends or in allowing your children into their own children's lives. It's also a very religious town - one of the first questions most people ask you is "What church do you attend?"; If you state that you don't attend a church, the question will be followed with an invitation to their church. Many of the connections and friendships formed here are church based, so if you are not involved then it will be more difficult for you.
Other than a quite large Hispanic population and many financially poor people, there is not much diversity here. You will not notice any homosexual people, or anyone who openly acts much different from the 'norm' - not even very many teenagers who stand out from the crowd. I seem to see a lot of pregnant teen girls and I could be wrong, but I don't think sex education is adequately addressed in the school system here (see 'conservative & religious').
There is also not much opportunity for young adults here - I've heard the local community college is quite good, but diversity of jobs is lacking. I think most children will move away for career opportunities or turn to minimum wage or blue collar related jobs here. If your children, my own children, want to pursue some different sort of job then there won't be much here unless a lot of changes happen in the next 15 years.
Because of the boom here right now, many business are lacking in employees which has lead to some very poor and sometimes rude service... normal in the situation, but annoying. Otherwise, in general, people here are friendly enough (polite type friendly). If you enjoy a quite at home type of life then you will have no problem enjoying your life here...you might have to push to make friends and get involved but it can be done.
Here are some links and phone #'s that might be helpful to someone considering a move here - and check out both Flickr and YouTube for photos and video of Hobbs!
Newman & CO Realtors - (505) 392-7777;
http://www.hobbsfinesthomes.com (website includes listings and photos of homes) This is not the only real estate company in town, but they certainly have a corner on the market! Be aware that in most cases the agent will be representing both the buyer and the seller.
Hobbs America -
http://www.hobbsamerica.com
Hobbs Freecycle -
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HobbsFreecycle
The Carlsbad & Hobbs NM Cafe -
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Carlsbad-Hobbs-Cafe
Lea County Tribune Newspaper-
http://leacountytribuneonline.com
Hobbs News-Sun Newspaper -
http://www.hobbsnews.com
Helping Hands for Hobbs (Free Fun Activities and Information about Hobbs) -
http://www3.webng.com/helpinghands
Lea County Public Health Office -
http://www.health.state.nm.us
Lea County Children's Clinic - 392-1503
Mother Goose Preschool - 397-4340 (Mrs. Hubbard)
Stone Elementary - 433-2500
KidsKare Dental Care; 3920 N. Lovington Hwy - 392-5437
New Mexico Junior College -
http://www.nmjc.edu
Hobbs Parks & Recreation -
http://activenet1.active.com/hobbsnm
Hobbs Public Library -
http://www.hobbspubliclibrary.org
City of Hobbs -
http://www.hobbsnm.org
New Mexico State Taxes -
http://www.tax.state.nm.us