First of all, Morphx2, WELCOME. I think you will find people here to be outwardly friendly (most of them anyway). Your post is full of questions and I will attempt to answer them as best I can this late at night.
I have lived here over 35 years. I am not a native "Hobbsan". I grew up in Albuquerque and still have family ties to central and northern NM.
However, I have come to know that there are some real opportunities here for anyone willing to work.
You mentioned that your wife is going thru the immigration process. Best wishes to her on that. It shows initiative, as does her willingness to volunteer if there is no job she can do at present.
While your post is lacking in specifics as to experience and/or qualifications/degrees, if any, let me suggest that if she is willing to work, to look around and see what businesses are here that she has experience in.
Since you are an employee of the State of New Mexico, let me tell you there are some very nice and dedicated people at the New Mexico State Department of Labor who's job it is to try to find employment for people who want to work and have qualifications.
However, as you are no doubt aware, the best way to find a job is to 'find a need and fill it'.
I would love to explore this further with you. If you wish to reveal your wifes' experience and qualifications, I will try to steer her to employment opportunities here that match.
As to volunteering, let me tell you, there are places in need of help all over town. Agencies that help kids, agencies that help the poor, agencies that help the aged, they are here.
And frankly, even if she finds gainfull paid employment, there is nothing to prevent her from volunteering anyway.
I don't know this list's rules about private off-list replies. I will give you my personal email address later if it is permitted.
Hope this helps in some way,
LongTimeBob
