So it's hard to find a mate in NYC? (New York: transplants, living)

[makossa]

Originally Posted by SeventhFloor

Hard to meet women? Go out to clubs and bars.

Go to the laundromat. Really, it's true.

[ElysianEagle]

Originally Posted by BobThe

I guess I can't post the pictures here but if anybody is interested..........e-mail me and I'll send you some pictures of some HARD CORE UGLY NYC single females over 50 who think that they are beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and are rejecting any man who isn't tall and handsome.

Good for a laugh or good for the shock value when you see THESE "beauts".

haha...i remember a few years back when i was living in LA, i met a woman in her late 40s/50s that was an NYC transplant. she was complaining about how little attention she was getting from the guys in LA, and how back in NYC she would routinely "turn heads". i had a hard time believing her, surely she must've been delusional!

[BobThe]

Originally Posted by Bronxguyanese

They were real ugly, but I guess some of these women also have ugly hearts too for expecting to much and perfection. something that YOu would usually find in pretty uptight women.

They were ugly inside and out and all thought that they were too "good" looking for me.

They'll be on the site for years, nobody wants em.

[BobThe]

Originally Posted by ElysianEagle

haha...i remember a few years back when i was living in LA, i met a woman in her late 40s/50s that was an NYC transplant. she was complaining about how little attention she was getting from the guys in LA, and how back in NYC she would routinely "turn heads". i had a hard time believing her, surely she must've been delusional!

That's a true New Yorker older female (spit)

[wordlife]

Bob,

The women in those pictures..... ugh quite putrid.

[BobThe]

Originally Posted by wordlife

Bob,

The women in those pictures..... ugh quite putrid.

Somebody somewhere convinced them that they were beautiful. Only guy in twenty years tried to date them was me. They thought they could do better.

[BobThe]

Originally Posted by Klato

A girl will go after a guy that is a bad boy, thug, potential cheater, etc for the drama and the excitement. A nice or predictable guy is not appealing to a girl since this will not produce the "necessary" drama that she needs in her life. As a man, i produce my happiness from within. A woman can compliment my happiness but never be the source of it.

Please post the pics! You can blur the faces

Not me! I would NEVER! do it. But I have to wonder about women who reject the nicest guys they ever met in their lives and go after the bad boy/thug/cheaters for the drama...............

I would never use violence but what happens if a truly nice guy, a kind gentleman keeps taking out women, paying for expensive meals, expensive theatre tickets, expensive gifts, treating the women with respect..............and getting rejected ("no 'chemistry' bull") everytime.

What happens if the nice guy loses it after the 95th rejection from the 95th girl who secretly craves bad boys, what happens if the nice guy finally snaps from too much rejection to the nth degree and proceeds to beat the living crap out of this foolish girl?

Would that be drama enough for her?

[Jaydata]

Originally Posted by BobThe

Not me! I would NEVER! do it. But I have to wonder about women who reject the nicest guys they ever met in their lives and go after the bad boy/thug/cheaters for the drama...............

I would never use violence but what happens if a truly nice guy, a kind gentleman keeps taking out women, paying for expensive meals, expensive theatre tickets, expensive gifts, treating the women with respect..............and getting rejected ("no 'chemistry' bull") everytime.

What happens if the nice guy loses it after the 95th rejection from the 95th girl who secretly craves bad boys, what happens if the nice guy finally snaps from too much rejection to the nth degree and proceeds to beat the living crap out of this foolish girl?

Would that be drama enough for her?

Errr... maybe you are a nice gentleman in real life, but you sounded like
a bitter Sugar Daddy from reading your venting in this thread. And you
probably attracted to the wrong type of women/girls if you keep getting
rejected.

Maybe you should go for different type of woman in the future, and don't
throw all the expensive items at the women in the begining. It could well
be you are scaring them away with your expensive stuff, too much
pressure for them maybe?

[Bronxguyanese]

Originally Posted by BobThe

Not me! I would NEVER! do it. But I have to wonder about women who reject the nicest guys they ever met in their lives and go after the bad boy/thug/cheaters for the drama...............

I would never use violence but what happens if a truly nice guy, a kind gentleman keeps taking out women, paying for expensive meals, expensive theatre tickets, expensive gifts, treating the women with respect..............and getting rejected ("no 'chemistry' bull") everytime.

What happens if the nice guy loses it after the 95th rejection from the 95th girl who secretly craves bad boys, what happens if the nice guy finally snaps from too much rejection to the nth degree and proceeds to beat the living crap out of this foolish girl?

Would that be drama enough for her?

Chicks need drama it helps them grow and learn, thats why they go for these guys. Usually nice guys would date control freaks.

[wordlife]

Originally Posted by BobThe

Not me! I would NEVER! do it. But I have to wonder about women who reject the nicest guys they ever met in their lives and go after the bad boy/thug/cheaters for the drama...............

I would never use violence but what happens if a truly nice guy, a kind gentleman keeps taking out women, paying for expensive meals, expensive theatre tickets, expensive gifts, treating the women with respect..............and getting rejected ("no 'chemistry' bull") everytime.

What happens if the nice guy loses it after the 95th rejection from the 95th girl who secretly craves bad boys, what happens if the nice guy finally snaps from too much rejection to the nth degree and proceeds to beat the living crap out of this foolish girl?

Would that be drama enough for her?

I really hate to bring this thread more off topic than it already is, but I feel this type of discussion is needed for males in particular.

Look man, chicks dig bad boys/thugs because thats the way they're hard wired. Women like unpredictability (drama), high testosterone, and most of all a dominant personality. Don't listen to a women when she talks about wanting a nice guy, that's total rubbish and if you believe it then you better get used to rejection (or constant emasculation).

Now i'm saying to be something other than what or who you are, but I am telling you its time for you to develop some game (the real equalizer on the playing field).

don't spend money on expensive gifts, etc for chicks you barely know (or even when you do know them, don't spend that type of $$$), thats just overcompensating and setting yourself for disappointment. A wallet never really earns someone's respect, it just garners someone usually looking to take advantage of you.

Be thankful for all of that rejection, I can see its stirred up alot of anger that you can use to your advantage in learning how to properly pull chicks that you want to bang. Please don't resort to any type of violence, we really don't need another George Sodini. I digress though, if you want to continue this convo hit me with a dm.