Why would you never call the NYPD again? What is your beef with them? What happened in this situation that made you so angry at them you would take to the internet and make them the bad guys in your long story?
Other than taking an hour to show up? While I know that is a long time and it is frustrating, it is not out of the realm of normality. When I lived in Austin Texas, one of my neighbors plowed into my PARKED car in a parking space (not at a light, in a parking space) going 30 miles an hour because she was texting and not paying attention to the row of cars parked along the street.
My car was totaled. When the neighbor got out of the car, her first statement was "If I call now, do you think they will reinstate my insurance...if I pay over the phone???". So, naturally I called the cops (using 311, as it wasn't an emergency) and told them my parked car had been totalled by an uninsured driver. The first thing the dispatcher asked was "Do you need an ambulance, has someone been hurt". When I told her no, she said "We will send someone when we can.". It took an hour for a cop to show up.
Now in my case, unlike yours, I actually needed a cop to show up because I had
actual damages that were going to need to be reported to my insurance company (since she didn't have insurance) and I needed a police report. But regardless...when there are no injuries, the police didn't prioritize it..that's just a fact of life. They will get to you when they can, but people whose lives are in DANGER get first priority. It is what it is.
As far as the police officer trying to, in a round about way, get you to not file a report, well duh! Why did you need to file a report for what you said was minor damage? It sounds to me that the officer was trying to help you out. Your insurance WILL go up when you report an accident, whether it is your fault or not. That is how insurance works. The cop was letting you know that if you wanted to avoid your rates going up, you still had the opportunity within 10 days to file the report if you had any injuries creep up, such as whiplash etc etc.
It sounds to me like the cop was being friendly and helpful. What did you expect him to do? Leave someone that was dying to come deal with your minor, no damage, traffic issue? Did you want him to issue a citation to the dumb woman that hit you? Cops don't do that unless they WITNESS the infraction. Did you want him to haul her off in chains? I know that the officer had to ask everyone on the scene if they were injured and needed an ambulance. If you, and your girlfriends, all said you didn't need an ambulance...what is the cop to do at that point?
Let me put myself into your mindset for a moment. You got hit by SOME idiot that probably shouldn't have a license because she doesn't know how to drive. You are angry and irritated. You call a cop (using 911
) even though the damage is minor because 1) the girl who hit you wasn't sorry enough and didn't apologize profusely enough and you wanted the cop to "get her" and 2) because you wanted a report so that you could sue for "pain and suffering" later. SOMEONES GOING TO PAY FOR YOUR INCONVENIENCE!!! Let's call 911, even though this isn't an emergency, because you are indignant!
Okay, now that we have put ourselves in your shoes, let's put ourselves in the cops shoes.
The cop is called on scene for a traffic accident, probably the 80000th one to occur in NYC that day. Neither driver is injured. No passengers are injured. No pedestrians are injured. The damage to both cars is so minor that you can't even tell it is more than normal wear and tear. A person "rear ended" by another driver at a stop light, so the most she could have hit you going was maybe 5 MPH.
"Why am I even here? Why did she call 911?" the cop is thinking. The cop tells your friend (why didn't he tell you? You were the driver), the cop tells your friend she can file a report, but her insurance is going to go up, and this is not really that big of a deal. He doesn't scream at her. By your own admission he is polite. He gives you all the information you need to file a report in the future IN CASE you have hidden injuries....
It sounds to me like the cop was looking out for your best interests. We should all be so lucky. "If you want to file a report now, we can, but if you don't want the hit to your insurance, go home, take time, think about it, see how you feel injury wise in the morning, you still can file a report in 10 days."
OH THE HORROR!! THE NYPD SUCKS!!! I AM NEVER CALLING THEM AGAIN!!
It just seems to me that you wanted them to billy club the other driver to death in front of you to make her pay for being such a stupid driver. That's not really how it works. I don't understand why the title of your thread is "never calling the NYPD again" and not "What is wrong with drivers in this city".
How did the NYPD become the bad guys in this story? The other driver is the idiot.....? Or are you just one of those people that complains about the NYPD no matter what they do? Even when they are polite and trying to point out to you how silly you are being? I ask because you titled your thread with an ANTI-NYPD title, and your user name is "BE MAD", so we know you are not exactly happy go lucky. What do you have to be mad about? Why are you mad all the time so that you have to make "being mad" your screen name? So everyone knows your default position is pissed off?
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