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Old 09-27-2013, 03:13 PM
 
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Men don't understand how much it costs for a woman to maintain herself, seem oblivious to our emotions and basically as objects.
Get Real. You think being a guy with game is easy ? Cologne Clothing Gym Membership ***DATING. These are all things that drain a man's bank account when considering a mate.

If you play by the game then accept the rules. Most times you will find another person just like yourself and it will be a living hell or something not worth pursuing for those *exact reasons.

People don't like people anymore. They need to fit into YOUR selfish scheme of things or else the other person is deemed useless.


Woman want test tube babies or a child with a paycheck coming in every month....no man involved. Gay marriage etc. etc.

All this junk is contributing to the human loss...and I do mean human loss because people just can't stand dealing with each other...at least not in Western Countries.

I've never been married (44) but I was close once but THANK GOD it didn't happen. I want love but I don't want to suffer for it ! I see guys who threw their lives away over some woman. Who is WORTH that ?


You got your smartphones computers music pocket poodles designer drugs football and cats. If you want a baby call a sperm bank. Who needs to get married or even DATE anymore ?
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Old 09-27-2013, 05:00 PM
 
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Get Real. You think being a guy with game is easy ? Cologne Clothing Gym Membership ***DATING. These are all things that drain a man's bank account when considering a mate.

If you play by the game then accept the rules. Most times you will find another person just like yourself and it will be a living hell or something not worth pursuing for those *exact reasons.

People don't like people anymore. They need to fit into YOUR selfish scheme of things or else the other person is deemed useless.


Woman want test tube babies or a child with a paycheck coming in every month....no man involved. Gay marriage etc. etc.

All this junk is contributing to the human loss...and I do mean human loss because people just can't stand dealing with each other...at least not in Western Countries.

I've never been married (44) but I was close once but THANK GOD it didn't happen. I want love but I don't want to suffer for it ! I see guys who threw their lives away over some woman. Who is WORTH that ?


You got your smartphones computers music pocket poodles designer drugs football and cats. If you want a baby call a sperm bank. Who needs to get married or even DATE anymore ?
You are associating a minority of people as a majority, and sound bitter as hell (no offense btw...). Maybe you are looking too much for eccentric dates? In my (very limited) experience, artsy girls always tend to want these complicated experiences and relationships, while the nerdy/work-oriented/"boring" (by the standards of those people who actually think clubbing at midnight is exciting) girls are normal and want in turn a normal relationship.

If you are being bossed around in a relationship...then call her on it! The players call it "the ***** test". I've seen it happen, and happened to me once. If a woman can't accept that you won't accept crap from her, then don't associate yourself with her.

But there are good women out there. I almost got into a very long-term relationship, if we didn't get job offers in different parts of the country, and she was a wonderful person. They definitely exist. Keep trying! I know Meetup.com has lots of events for 40+ singles. My parents got married at 40, so don't give up!
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Old 09-27-2013, 05:51 PM
 
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So, looking at the consensus, there are lots of women in NYC that are under 24 years if age, and most are decently attractive, which sounds like heaven coming from e Pitts of Connecticut after a year living there. Awesome.

Does anyone know what's the best area to go with the best girl:guy ratio? I'm a born and raised New Yorker, but moved Upstate for college, relocated after graduating, and know little about the nightlife scene in the city, so some direction would be awesome!

Also,some comments suggested that women in the city have more of a guard. Does that mean an honest approach is impossible? I'm not a player, but I've read up on the subject. I've learned in college that the best "approach" is just to be yourself, but just with super confidence. Go, introduce, firm handshake, ask why they're at the venue, and move on to phone number.

Does this not work in the city, since even in bars they're afraid of being picked up by someone with bad intentions?

I ask because I hate being fake to people, and don't like "picking up" drunk people. The one time I did, I felt like a d!ck, since she didn't want to do it, but was too drunk to know what was really going on(most likely she was a RA, so she could of gotten into big trouble). I was a freshmen (and underage...shhh...), and had no idea she was drunk till the morning after. Ever since then, I always go for phone numbers and try to form a relationship before getting to that stage.

Thanks!
The best place to meet a woman, well that depends. If your eccentric, liberal and educated try the East Village. If a bit waspy and professional try Murray Hill or Kipps bay. If you like hood ghetto chicks try Harlem, Washington Heights, Much of Bronx and Brooklyn. Pick your poison!
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Old 10-21-2013, 07:24 AM
 
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It is very hard to meet a real good woman anywhere these days, let alone in NYC. there personality is not so good nowadays, especially when you try to start a conversation with the one that you would really like to meet. there will be women that will be very nasty to me, and then walk away. I know other men that had this happened to them as well. and with much more women that are Gay today, that does certainly have a lot to do with it as well. women were certainly without a doubt much different years ago than now, and that would explain why our parents and grandparents had very long marriages. with the divorce rate being so very much out of control now, that will make it very difficult for many of us serious men looking for a good woman to settle down with since most of them are the ones that cause most divorces today. and many women just can't commit to only One Man Anymore, and have that desire to go out and Cheat. Very Sad.
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