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One thing i firmly believe is that both men and women are very stupid not picky. When it comes to relationships people tend to always blame the other person instead of learning they themselves are the problem. When someone finally matures to accept they have been the majority reason of past failures, thats when they will be ready and hopefully find someone in the same wavelength.
Not out in the dating world anymore, been married for close to 7 years now but you would think if this were true women would be walking around a lot more desperate and would be less picky. I don't get that impression at all.
Only these transplants have problems dating. I'm married myself but I had no problem meeting women when I was a bachelor. Not saying I was a Casanova or anything but I did ok.
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Only these transplants have problems dating. I'm married myself but I had no problem meeting women when I was a bachelor. Not saying I was a Casanova or anything but I did ok.
Most of the women are just too picky, especially transplant white females that can only date white males. When they come to NYC they realized that many of the white males are dating non-white females and they are left with less choices. A well to do white male in his late 20 to middle 30s is more likely to date a non-white female in NYC than elsewhere.
Imo, there are far less "good" women in NYC, there are lots of "good" men. There are too many women that I would stay away from because they are just too into themselves. If you put up that B attitude, guess what most good guys are not gonna mess with you.
you would think if this were true women would be walking around a lot more desperate and would be less picky. I don't get that impression at all.
Exactly. Especially the "good" women are not having a hard time managing their sex lives. They will always find "good" males for partners. Now those good males may be having more than one partner but the population of good females seeking them is still happy to oblige, which is how it mostly works in the natural world.
Only these transplants have problems dating. I'm married myself but I had no problem meeting women when I was a bachelor. Not saying I was a Casanova or anything but I did ok.
This here.
I've only had problems staying married, lol. Finding women has never been an issue, although I suppose my saying this confirms what the article is saying sort of.
Oh and sex gets waaaaayyy better as you get a little older. I see plenty of good looking 20-somethings every night in Manhattan, but I'm completely uninterested in the nonsense it would take to score their likely sub-par bedroom performance. I'm very happy with what I have now. An older chick might pique my interest though...
Ironically it is the wide spread acceptance of gays/homosexuality by the *WASP*/mainstream/democratic (and even some republican), progressive and liberal society in NYC that is making problems for these white women even worse. Marriage and other "equality* means that Harvard pre-med and Columbia med school grad can just as easily bust out and marry a gay male nurse as female and suffer no consequences. They can marry at St. Bart's on Park Avenue (or several other connected Protestant churches in NYC), move into a co-op on Fifth Avenue and otherwise go about a normal life.
I would say the acceptance of gays makes the situation *better* for single women these days. Do you really think it was a single woman's dream to settle down with a gay man who doesn't want a physical relationship with her and has hookups on the side? You make it sounds as if a guy can switch his sexuality on or off for a particular person male or female--is that the way it works for you?
Exactly. Especially the "good" women are not having a hard time managing their sex lives. They will always find "good" males for partners. Now those good males may be having more than one partner but the population of good females seeking them is still happy to oblige, which is how it mostly works in the natural world.
It's kind of sad that women are this way today, because unknowingly, they diminish themselves. (This is not to criticize - but a lot don't know any better).
The way that I was able to get myself a gorgeous white professional male (I'm a Latina female) was by playing this special woman who only "gives it up" if I'm really committed. It took the poor bastid 9 months to get my number. He saw something special in me and eventually asked me to marry him. And boy was he hot (Leonardo DiCaprio look alike). Anyways, I made myself out to be wife material. My marriage to him lasted for 12 years before I ended it.
I believe that playing hard to get is especially useful. It makes the other party want you more. I could be wrong, but women need to show they have something special instead of opening up their legs to anyone they see.
Now of course, the above applies to women who want to keep men. Personally, after my divorce, I no longer play those games, because I do not care to be married to anyone anymore. (Been there, done that!)
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An older chick might pique my interest though...
