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Old 10-04-2015, 05:21 PM
 
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Old 10-04-2015, 05:23 PM
 
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I'm also criticized for my fashion choices, but that's a different topic.
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Old 10-04-2015, 05:25 PM
 
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Black women who date interracially are often ridiculed and called horrible names. I don't want to experience that headache.
Are you kidding me?

So let me get this straight your basically mad men are racist towards you but apparently you are racist right back.
Here's my advice work on YOU.
Find some confidence and self love and stop worrying about colors and what other people say.
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Old 10-04-2015, 05:29 PM
 
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Black women who date interracially are often ridiculed and called horrible names. I don't want to experience that headache.
Speaking of headache - you're giving me one. No guy will want to be with you if they read your past couple of comments. Ain't no pleasing you, woman...
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Old 10-04-2015, 05:34 PM
 
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Are you kidding me?

So let me get this straight your basically mad men are racist towards you but apparently you are racist right back.
Here's my advice work on YOU.
Find some confidence and self love and stop worrying about colors and what other people say.
Where did I make a racist remark? Show me the racism? I mentioned that people say derogatory comments to black women who date IR. I don't want to experience that headache because it is a lot of work trying to please people and prove that you do not hate yourself, just because you are dating interracially.

I do not behave in a racist manner, at all. I'm a person who judges people based on their character and individual merit.
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Old 10-04-2015, 05:38 PM
 
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Speaking of headache - you're giving me one. No guy will want to be with you if they read your past couple of comments. Ain't no pleasing you, woman...
I'm confused, because the purpose of a message board is to post commentary.

You are criticizing me for responding to posts?
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Old 10-04-2015, 06:23 PM
 
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I really wish that NYC had forums like this:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfPw9OGQhiE
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Old 10-04-2015, 06:23 PM
 
Location: BROOKLYN NYC
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I primarily find that most of the venom is spewed from black men. They seem to hate black American women. There are a lot of black guys on social media who say the most hateful, disrespectful comments towards black American women. They always state, "this only applies to black American women, not black women of non black American ancestry."
Well, black American guys for the most part are ignorant jerk*ffs. Hows that for a stereotype? So do yourself a huge favor. Do exactly what my beautiful black American wife did, marry a sweet, handsome, Italian guy with a rock hard body that knows how to love his black queen. Plenty of real white men out there that would adore you. Time to get with the swirl my lady.

Be who you are, never apologize for it and hold your head high. Nothing more beautiful on this planet then a strong, intelligent black woman that happens to be hot as well...
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Old 10-04-2015, 06:31 PM
 
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Well, black American guys for the most part are ignorant jerk*ffs. Hows that for a stereotype? So do yourself a huge favor. Do exactly what my beautiful black American wife did, marry a sweet, handsome, Italian guy with a rock hard body that knows how to love his black queen. Plenty of real white men out there that would adore you. Time to get with the swirl my lady.

Be who you are, never apologize for it and hold your head high. Nothing more beautiful on this planet then a strong, intelligent black woman that happens to be hot as well...
Thank you for the very kind/sweet comments, but shouldn't IR relationships happen organically and not be forced? It can be perceived as racist to target a particular group for dating, just based on stereotypes and skin color.

I would not have any issues with IR dating, if it occurred like any other relationship.
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Old 10-04-2015, 06:40 PM
 
Location: BROOKLYN NYC
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Thank you for the very kind/sweet comments, but shouldn't IR relationships happen organically and not be forced? It can be perceived as racist to target a particular group for dating, just based on stereotypes and skin color.

I would not have any issues with IR dating, if it occurred like any other relationship.
Just go for it, don't over analyze. You will thank me big time one day...
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