Hi there. I have been reading every post about NYC and Rochester on this site for weeks. I have been trying to find that ONE thing that is going to "cap" it for me on a decision of whether to go to Rochester or Brooklyn that is tearing my insides out. So. I am here to ask all of you fine forum posters your opinion...
Here is the background:
I am originally from Rochester, NY and have lived in different areas of the USA + Europe. I currently live in England with my British husband and we are looking to move to the States after my being here with him for three years after moving from LA.
We live in a mid-sized city on the south coast of England an hour+ outside of London. We like being in a smaller city over here and to have access to London anytime we choose for all of the things we can't get from where we live (great live music, museums, etc.).
These are the facts:
Past
- I commuted to and from London for a high level job every day and after a while, found it really hard (4 hour daily commute).
- We live in a 1 bedroom, 475 square foot flat that cost us $275,000 over here. It is too small and we feel on top of one another all the time.
Current
- We are 33 and 34 years old with no children yet but really want them in the near future.
- There are two job offers for me on the table. One in Rochester, NY with a great job that would pay me 84K/annually at a company known for it's decline in Rochester in the past few decades but this job is safe. The other is a phenomenal start-up (that is in the news every other day and just received 30M in venture capital that could be all over an IPO in 4 years) in Brooklyn would pay me 90K/annually.
- We already have a property (1100 sq. ft) that we invested in and currently rent out in Rochester, NY (South Wedge to be exact). All we would have to do is move in and pay a total of about $1000 for mortgage, utilities and taxes. In Brooklyn, I would have to share an apt. with a stranger for a few months until my husband comes arrives on his visa and then we would have to find a rental since NYC real estate is insane.
- NYC has so much going on culturally as far as arts, music, etc. which are all of our interests right there in front of us. We would never be bored, ever. Rochester doesn't have as much choice and I am afraid my husband will find it boring, we would just have to dig a bit more I think.
- My family still live in Rochester. We know a few acquaintances in NYC.
- Brooklyn is booming, Rochester is declining.
Now, I know all of the positives and negatives about each city. "Rochester is a great place to raise kids but is declining." "NYC is no longer affordable to live, prices keep going up especially in real estate, it is dirty, not a great place to raise kids but there is so much going on as far as jobs, nightlife, culture, entertainment, etc."
I realize that all of this is probably pointing to Rochester but I guess I am wondering if you had all of these negative facts about each on the table, what would you do? We are trying to be smart long term (kids, job longevity, real estate ownership, quality of life, etc.) and I just don't want to make the wrong decision.
Thank you in advance for your help - I am dying over here!