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Originally Posted by clevedark
Hmm. That's tough. I have heard that in many cities elementary public schools are fine and that it gets tougher in middle school and high school to find a satisfactory school. You might want to visit the middle school your kids will go to--it might be really obvious just setting foot in the place that you would not be comfortable sending your kids there.
And I went to a very competitive private high school (as well as a different private school for elementary) that was one of the top 25 in the country for Ivy League admissions--I got a great education, but I'm not so sure it was that much better than what I would have received in a top public high school. I can say for sure that my ability to get along with people different from me was hampered by being in an elite environment, and I've spent many years discovering the delights of what I missed.
As a matter of fact, I'm sending my kids to a fantastic public school and plan to keep them there through high school. I am confident they will get a thorough and well rounded education, and I hope they'll be ready to take on the world afterwards!
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Very well said. I was in the whole private school/private university track until I decided to do a post-baccalaureate. I went to a state school. I simply could not believe the quality of education and diversity I was exposed to for what was maybe 15% of the tuition of the private schools I'd been going to.
The difference is that your hand doesn't get held as much. You don't deal with elitists who think they are great for going to an elite institution and grade inflation isn't so rampant.
You want an "A" you get it by being in the top 10%, no exceptions.
I don't blame a school for needing to give "A" to 25% of the class when the average SAT is 1350 or higher. It wouldn't be fair to only give the top 10% of that group an "A". However, you can go to public school, pay less and still do whatever you want in the world except bank on those high-end connections you make at the private places.
If your chosen field is one that is more about merit and less about connections, you will be fine. Otherwise I guess there is a purpose in paying the 600%+ premium.