So, where I differ from most people asking questions here is that I'm actually a native New Yorker. However, I've lived in the same apartment all my life, and I'm 17 so my life experience is rather limited. I've been living on the Lower East Side and I know a lot about that area, and a good chunk of Brooklyn. We're getting rent-controlled out of our apartment July 1, and my parents decided that they'd like to buy a house with some relatives and have us all move it. They've fallen in love with a house in Washington Heights, on 162nd between Amsterdam and Edgecombe. But I've got some reservations.
My mom and I drove around the neighborhood today and it seemed pretty cool. We were driving around 3:45, so there were a ton of high school kids walking around- but they were all chilled out, no packs of screaming idiots like the schools in my area. (I'm out of high school so school quality isn't a big concern for me personally.) It was a nice busy sort of area, don't know if it sounds weird to say this but there were a lot more signs in English than I expected. There were a few bits that weren't that great, but I'd put them on par with what it's like on some patches of Avenue D. I mean, all in all, it seems like a good place to live.
But, given that I've only ever lived in the one apartment complex, I've got some questions.
1. Currently, I, a 5'9 108 lb Jewish girl, feel completely safe walking home around midnight or even around 1 AM, though I'm usually home around 11:30. However I basically just walk from the subway around the perimeter of my complex and it's safe inside. How late would I be able to do that in the part of Washington Heights I mentioned? There are two tall adult male family members who would walk me from the subway but I don't want to make them keep my stupid hours, and my boyfriend would be happy to escort me home- but he lives in Brooklyn and I'd rather not make him come all the way up, walk me home, and go all the way back. I have a job working for an artist which requires that I spend evenings in Lower Manhattan. I'm not a partier and I don't drink or get high so I would be coming home completely sober, but I'd have a 40-minute subway ride to deal with. My parents have said they'd be willing to pay for cabs but that would add up fast. I'm taking a lot of courses this year despite not being in high school and this art job isn't going to be getting me money for a few months...I'd help if I could, but unfortunately my resources are really, really limited. So, anyway, point is, being able to walk home unescorted would be really nice if it was possible. I doubt it is, but I thought I'd ask/
Also, I usually kill the time on train rides with a nice long podcast or an audiobook. I had to sell my iPod but I'm going to be buying a Touch soon and will certainly have one by the time we move. If I kept it in my jacket pocket and was discreet about my non-Apple headphones would I be as safe as anywhere else or should I just not risk it? Because of my gender and scrawniness I know I'm quite a target. I know I'd be okay during the day, but let's say I was getting off the train at 1:15 AM. What about then?
How's the train service way up north? I figure it's probably as good as anywhere else in the city and the A is usually pretty reliable for me, but I figured I'd ask.
I should probably know this stuff, given that I was born and raised here, but I've never lived in another neighborhood and though I know how much my family's rent is and know how much things generally cost, I don't have any experience with specifics.
Oh, random thought.
The plan my family has is that my parents and some other relatives will all be chipping in to buy a building, splitting the costs equally. There would be two, possibly three households. What they'd like is two duplexes in one building and possibly also a one-bedroom apartment in that building, to either be used as an office for the family business or for yet another relative to live in. Should I bother poking around real estate listings tomorrow for buildings that fit that description, for 1.2 million dollars maximum (as in if it's 1.2 mil it can't even need a new coat of paint) in:
Williamsburg
Greenpoint
Whatever the area around the 7th avenue stop on the Q is called
Fort Greene
Clinton Hill
Brooklyn Heights
Once again I doubt it but I figured I'd ask people who know about moving costs.
Sorry if this post is really retarded; it's 3:15 AM. I was only told last week that we were definitely going to have to move, and oh by the way it's to a townhouse Washington Heights, when last I knew we had a vague plan to get an apartment in Brooklyn- so it's been kind of stressing me out.
I'm looking forward to moving (I will get my own room for the first time in my entire existence; I'm a twin so I never even got a uterus to myself

) but I'm still nervous and would like any info you guys can give.
Oh, and what's the deal with the Edgecombe Correctional Facility? My mom and I only found that when we were driving by today. It looked very low-security and it's actually in a really nice building; we had no idea it was a lockup. If anyone can tell me anything about that, please do. Whatever other info you have about Washington Heights would be great. Thanks for reading this wall of text.