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being a true native New Yorker, I see here more depressing than Elmira
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not saying that you do carry this attitude, but it is something to be careful of - people upstate are also true native new yorkers
we have gotten many city transplants who expect us to be impressed by their large living exploits and all the things they've seen and done in the city
honestly - no one gives a rip
as with moving anywhere you will need to embrace and work within the community you are moving into and not expect them to start changing because you are now there and their way isn't what you are used to
I think there is a lot of potential in upstate NY - however, it's not for everyone and there are some real challenges
i love visiting and it was a nice place to grow up - but I could never live there - limited job opportunities, limited social activity, low diversity, lack of convenience to a variety of shopping, frustrating local politicians and an oppressive state taxation framework
however, it's set in some of the most beautiful land in this nation, is mainly quiet, affordable, you don't spend you life driving to and from work, a good sense of community and it's possible to not only own a good chunk of land, but to really be a part of the land you're living in