Since you're not in a time crunch, you should certainly come on up here on the weekends, drive around the towns and developments, walk around the villages, check out all the activities that are here on the weeks (sports, cultural, historic sites - whatever are your interests). Spending time in different areas, will give you a sense of which town/village / area appeals to you.
Happy hunting and congrats on joining us 50-somethings!
P.S. Just saw your other post and it sounds like you've already decided that you'd rather be in a village setting as opposed to being in a more rural area of a town. I can certainly relate! I love that Orange County is not fully built out, that we still have farms and open land between villages. However for a place to live, I have to agree with you, I prefer the walkability (or at least short drives) that a village provides.
The Village of Washingtonville
is a nice place and you will fit in. And as the other poster wrote, you and your DH will fit in anywhere in OC.
Now, having written something positive about Washingtonville, I'm anticipating the posts that are going to follow which will bash the school district. Please do your own investigation. All the districts in this area good. Washingtonville has a great superintendent at the helm. She has been in the district for a while and as supt. has brought great leadership. Great things are happening in our schools.